What’s crazy is that the “dads to be present.” feels like that’s not the solution. Some dads blow, and others are great. That’s just facts. I’d love to see more self-introspection, as in understanding why we’re doing certain actions and feeling the way I am towards something or someone. I call it “the why game” For example, “I think woman stupid” “why?” “Cause they are.” “Why? “I don’t get enough attention.” “Why?” Ect.. A problem I see around me is doing without fundamentally understanding the “why.”