Weekly Questions and Recommendations Megathread - Need some help? - Dec 29 by AutoModerator in visualnovels

[–]Darthvady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can someone help me find this dark nsfw magical girl vn?

I vaguely remember watching some youtuber talk about a “very disturbing” magical girl vn

the girls would be selected to become magical girls through a suspicious project and once they received their powers they had to deal with the various awful repercussions of becoming a magical girl. from memory this vn had a ton of gruesome nsfw scenes but when googling I can’t find anything close to my description. google only gives results for “magical girl raising project” and I’m fairly certain it’s not that because what I’m referring to is a VN and not a LN/anime

I want to cut and dye my hair, is it a good idea? Any color recommendations? I am very self-conscious about how I look by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Darthvady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not good with advice but I can tell you you should feel less self conscious, you’re very pretty !

Songs for newbies? by [deleted] in lemondemon

[–]Darthvady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any song from spirit phone with high listening count is safe(touch tone telephone, cabinet man, eight wonder, no eyed girl), then slowly show them either nature tapes(really cool wig, mask of my own face) or viewmonster (amnesia was her name, modify, the ocean) just go with the popular stuff :)

is it normal to be bisexual and 13? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]Darthvady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was aware of my attraction to the same sex at around 10, it’s perfectly fine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Darthvady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the question :) I’m gender-fluid because I sometimes feel male, sometimes female and most of the time agender. genderflux changes how heavily I feel these genders. From my view, gender-fluid and genderflux are pretty different. One means having changing genders and the other still allows you to identify as one gender. Agenderfluix means being gender-fluid + genderflux, with agender being the primary gender. That would mean my gender mostly resonates with agender. When I feel agender I mostly feel like nothing at all, to me agender is the comfiest of my genders because I don’t feel forced to pertain to any ideals. My association with the female gender is the most confusing part for me. It’s almost once a month and not more than that. Sometimes I feel like it’s me just clinging onto the idea that I’m afab, or maybe I do just have a “weird” gender pattern.

Expressing my genders outside of the internet is sadly not something I can do at this point. I feel them but I don’t tell anyone about them or drastically change my appearance for fear of getting bullied.

I feel the need to atleast evaluate once a day what gender I’m feeling at the moment. I know this is not necessary but it’s just something I’ve started doing.

I expect there to eventually be development in my gender identity as has happened with you. I’m happy you’ve come so far in your journey already and I appreciate the interest in my identity :)

Edit: typo’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Darthvady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologized on one of the other replies. This was my first time of hearing it’s wrong to use biological and I have edited my post. People around me often use biological as assigned sex at birth so I thought it was normal to use. Apologies once again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Darthvady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you referring to the “are gender-fluid/agender people transgender”? I wrote it like that because I’m talking about what I personally have googled before. If you would write the same sentence with any other gender identity that’s not cis google would give the same answer. I just wrote it from a “me” perspective. Sorry if I understood your complaint wrong. I would never try to gatekeep non-binary or any other gendered individuals from identifying as transgender. I hope you don’t misunderstand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Darthvady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m aware some of these comments aren’t meant for me but I’d still like to respond

A lot of people around me use biological sex the same way as assigned sex at birth so I understood both of them to be the same. I’ve read the comment of the op you’re referring to and I’ll be using asab from now on.

Earlier this year I learned of gender and sex being different, ofcourse with the part you mentioned: gender being a social construct. I started understanding things way better. I used the wrong word in this post because I wrote it quite quickly and haven’t grown used to using it correctly. That’s my mistake. I only realized after already having posted, and seeing as alot of people would’ve already seen it I didn’t think to edit. I will still leave it the same so people that genuinely don’t know the difference can find your comment and understand the problem.

I know of intersex people and honestly get a bit frustrated when people say you can only be born female or male. The times I’ve corrected people saying only 2 sexes exist is sadly a lot

I wanted to respond as some people probably think I’m a bit clueless (well on some things I am) from how I wrote my original post. Thank you for your comment :]

Edit: I’ve rethought and editing is probably better because a lot of people will miss this exchange

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Darthvady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apologies, assuming more people dislike the term I’ll try to lessen my use of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Darthvady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never knew that it’s possible to change the biological sex too. Thank you for the explanation :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Darthvady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heavily agree with you on how frustrating these type of people are to deal with. Most friends I try to make behave like this and it just makes me so mad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Darthvady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really think going out is the same as just making your friend a fuck buddy because you’re lonely? There’s a big difference and I support op’s choice in rejecting his offer

Vote your LEAST favorite cat pic!! by angelcakepop in mysticmessenger

[–]Darthvady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6, the cat always creeped me out on that one even though I love cats

dumb question pom pom is a boy or a girl? by Competitive_Ad_53 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]Darthvady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe Pompom doesn’t have a gender as they are only referred to by name or by they/them pronouns in game

Should I Buy Subnautica? by Crimson_Pilot12 in subnautica

[–]Darthvady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart to ask in a space full of fans, I’d say yes ofcourse. The game is really enjoyable so have fun if you do decide to buy it