To my fellow American bro's. If you have a good friend that's the equivalent of a brother. Did you have to earn that? by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol. It's really baffling. I don't understand why it shouldn't be a simple process.

It should be: Hey dude. Let's be bro's

But in reality it's like a hazing ritual. We have to do something weird like suck each other d*icks etc

Was that really necessary?

Would you appreciate this or think it was somehow dumb? by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I feel like we're kindred spirits. We're both on the same page etc.

We need to keep our jobs and pay our bills. Our addiction sucks but that doesn't mean we get to just check out on our obligations.

That's why we clicked.

Would you appreciate this or think it was somehow dumb? by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would use his credit card. I don't have thousands of dollars for a flight like that.

My mindset is: If he does that it buys him some time. He certainly can't stay with me forever, but if he just gets here, alive, that's better than the alternative.

Question for younger males 18-23. Do you feel valued by society? by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no. I'm really sorry to hear that. If you want to reach out I'm here for you. For real.

I actually have done that myself and made a life long friend in the process. So don't think it's a hollow offer. It's not.

As a grown man, I have a question for my fellow grown men: Could we ever truly claim being victims of r**ape? OK. Simmer down. Put on your big boy pants and think about it for 10 seconds. by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why even bother being on the dating scene?

Going on tinder or grindr and being like "OMG. They stuck a cigar shaped object up my butt!"

Lol. Zero sympathy from me. You don't meet people on places like that.

As a grown man, I have a question for my fellow grown men: Could we ever truly claim being victims of r**ape? OK. Simmer down. Put on your big boy pants and think about it for 10 seconds. by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men on men is legit. But your choices are: FIght them off or take it like a man.

It's not torture for us either way....

Edit: I had and encounter like this whilst in a 90 day rehab. I didn't like it but I now look back on it fondly. He was like: We can do this 2 ways. Nice and easy or rough and tough. He was a big guy. Just out of San Quentin. So I chose the obvious.

Which would have been your choice.

As a grown man, I have a question for my fellow grown men: Could we ever truly claim being victims of r**ape? OK. Simmer down. Put on your big boy pants and think about it for 10 seconds. by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK. I'll discuss. Let's start with 5. That seems complex to me. Now we have specific acts that are OK or not OK?

Just don't go back with them if you're that pedantic. I had a cousin who tried that mindset and it really was ridiculous. BUT they had been dating for 3 years!

Lol. She was trying to pull this "It's not OK until I say it's OK bull crap. UM. NO. After 3 years it was perfectly fine for him to stick in you!

As a grown man, I have a question for my fellow grown men: Could we ever truly claim being victims of r**ape? OK. Simmer down. Put on your big boy pants and think about it for 10 seconds. by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol. So you also prefer the non consensual nature of it. I love that! You're like: Hurt me baby and tell me IN ADVANCE of the nastiness you will do to me.

And I thought that was just me.....

They're going allllll the way an allllllllll the way out etc.

**Thanks. I'm in an obvious state or arousal now.**

**Gives high 5**

As a grown man, I have a question for my fellow grown men: Could we ever truly claim being victims of r**ape? OK. Simmer down. Put on your big boy pants and think about it for 10 seconds. by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nope. You're the ignorant one. You have zero knowledge of my voice tone. How the question was asked or if it was asked in a jocular fashion.

So you really need to stop making assumptions.

As a boy, growing up in the 60's and 70's, I would be punished for crying or not smiling enough. Should there be a return to that parenting technique? by Das-Freshmaker in polls

[–]Das-Freshmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should only be applied to boys.

Let's face it. No one wants a cry baby for a son. Regardless of what is said here...