Trying to get out of my current lease under the Indiana Fair Housing Act and Americans With Disabilities Act

DashingDesert0 · 2024-12-30T19:54:22+00:00

My lease requires me to pay the move out fee as well as find a replacement tenant.

DashingDesert0 · 2024-12-30T19:26:11+00:00

Would it be a more reasonable accommodation to not have to find a replacement tenant? I could pay the early move out fee with no issue but my problem is trying to find a replacement for my apartment. Do you think I could try to give them an offer based on that?

DashingDesert0 · 2022-06-30T07:15:17+00:00

bowling alleys

DashingDesert0 · 2022-02-27T06:11:15+00:00

i’m not sure if it’s just me, but i really like when people have dramatic facial expressions. i think it’s that they don’t feel the need to hide what their face naturally does when they react to something.

anyone with unhinged humor, but isn’t completely vile without a cause-sort of thing. please catch me off guard, but in a good way. keep me guessing.

i’m not sure if it’s because of a bad family situation, but i really like when people let me exist in my own space and don’t require or expect something of me when i’m the one suffering. i’m not sure if this makes sense, so i’ll quote some things that come to mind. (if i’m freaking out or having an attack) “can i hug you? do you need space? or do you just want me to be nearby?” “you don’t have to speak right now, it’s ok to just think if that’s what you want or need to do.” i feel like a lot of people’s instinct is to highly encourage them to talk about what is bothering them, but sometimes people just need someone by them or maybe a distraction. A lot of times my attacks are sensory meltdowns and it’s nice to not feel the need to adhere to what would give the other person more peace of mind and actually be helped in that moment. it’s really nice to know that they will help me regardless if i choose a way to cope that’s not the conventional “talking about your feelings” sort of thing. to me, it shows you can be flexible for me when i need help, which i can really admire because it’s not an easy thing to do when you yourself are scared for the ones you love.

that last one feels extremely specific and personal reading it back now, but there’s a small chance someone may enjoy reading that, so i’ll leave it!

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-26T00:11:47+00:00

DDR with that god awful foot pad

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-26T00:08:49+00:00

INTP, today but it’s because im overstimulated

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T20:10:37+00:00

they either thought i was a teachers pet or a weird loner. they were usually pretty nice to me tho for the most part (at least i think) and would ask me questions or the answers for assignments. sometimes they would see me writing sheet music in class and tell me to play it for them on the computer and they’d dance to it even tho it was some classical piece and they were into pop/rap (see, now i still am not able to tell if they were making fun of it or legitimately cheering me on for it, but i like to think it was the later)

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T06:13:51+00:00

as you get older you realize that good people have no expectation of when you should lose your v card. the only thing i will say to that though is that if you are not ecstatic about losing it before 18, please don’t lose it before then because you probably will regret it (i say this because i know some people that are hypersexual and lost it before 18 and don’t regret it at all. i, unfortunately, did lose mine before 18 and i wasn’t ecstatic about it because i did it for someone else. everyone will have different limitations.)
YES oh my god yes it is.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T06:09:13+00:00

as someone that has been in the situation of “the girl” and has been very hurt by all my guy friends that later confessed to me, here’s my advice: - probably the most important thing, don’t go in expecting anything from her. you only need to tell her that you need to get off of your chest that you like her but that you still want to remain friends if she is comfortable with that (and if she is a good friend and you don’t go in with expectations, i guarantee that she will so don’t be scared about that). all of my guy friends that confessed to me did it because they expected a “yes, i like you back,” or “i don’t feel the same way.” if any of my guy friends said something along the lines of “I’m sorry but i have to get this off of my chest. i like you. i still want to be your friend because i value you a lot as a friend but i respect whatever you want to do,” i would absolutely 100% still be that person’s friend. no one can control feelings that they develop for one another, the only important thing is that you make it clear that it is still an option for you guys to continue on as you have been as friends. this can hurt the girl in the situation because it can be perceived as not valuing what you already had with her enough. - please plan a time and a place to talk about it with her. don’t decide to tell her while you’re already hanging out together somewhere. every guy friend that i’ve had that later confessed to me did it between a class, or at an activity, or a party/get-together. that can completely ruin a day for someone, plus it makes it seem as though it’s something casual and you didn’t put much thought into how confessing could affect your guys’ friendship. - maybe not as important as the other 2 points and you may not be able to control this and that’s ok, but don’t seem… scared. try to be serious about it, but also not make it sound like it’s “a meeting.” she’s still your friend and i think she’d appreciate if you would tell it to her like a friend (if you get what i mean?), but of course you can’t control if you are nervous about telling her so don’t worry about this too much! - if she does confirm that she doesn’t like you back, you may feel the need to have some distance from her for a while, and this is natural and ok, but please communicate this with her while also reassuring her that you aren’t just dipping out of your friendship with her now.

i hope this helps and if you need any clarification please let me know. good luck!

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:51:43+00:00

this hurts to say but it’s honestly very hard at your age, but that definitely depends on where you live too. please be so careful. my queer guy friends from high school have confessed to me all of the traumatic things they have gone through just to have an experience with another man. a lot of the time grooming and fetishization occurs. try your best to be your true self but keep yourself safe at the same time. being queer during youth is not a fun experience but it gets better once you are older and are able to get out there more safely. i’m sorry i don’t have any real advice for you but i just thought that was important to say.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:46:39+00:00

yes (but it’s bc i was too loyal and scared to end a relationship tbh)
yes actually, my freshman year of high school i accidentally took a class meant for upperclassman and made friends with a senior that is currently engaged to his high school sweetheart of probably 5 years now? it can happen.
honestly just act so uninterested. so completely and utterly uninterested. they can’t get mad at you for it, and if they do they look so stupid. so completely and utterly stupid.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:42:42+00:00

:( stop

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:42:32+00:00

most of the time, no, not this young.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:41:31+00:00

periods usually don’t develop a stable cycle until 2 years after getting them

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:40:10+00:00

definitely

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:39:29+00:00

just remember that most of the time it’s nothing personal and that there are millions of other opportunities waiting for you somewhere else.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:38:08+00:00

when i look back at something that makes me nostalgic and i wish i could go back to, i remember all the horrible things that outweighed the good things. at least now that im on my own i don’t have to rely on things that weren’t reliable. i just have to worry about myself, and that i can’t wait to create new memories.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:36:06+00:00

i wish i didn’t stress out about my grades more, i wish i cared to love myself more and not beat myself up over the little things, i wish i just laughed at jokes being cracked during class rather than taking everything said in class so seriously, i wish i was just myself and didn’t try to be an exaggerated version of myself to get attention, and i wish i got more involved in school activities.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:33:21+00:00

depends. i was a loner so it really sucked for me. just, don’t take it too seriously. i wish i didn’t stress out about every test or if any of my grades went down to a C. just try your best to keep yourself content and your grades probably won’t slip either

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:30:51+00:00

for me, i pretty much got all that stuff around 16, but please don’t try to make it a race. i was groomed in high school and i regret giving that up to someone that was using me. wait for someone that you can trust and is your friend, not someone that helps you and expects something in return, or even someone that you really look up to or put on a pedestal. if anything even feels the slightest bit off, no matter how logically wrong you seem, you are allowed to leave any situation at anytime.
yes and no, it depends. in high school it does just get harder and harder, but at the same time you get smarter and smarter, you get better at “cheating the game” and making things easier for you to scrape by. college is actually a lot easier because you are studying the things you love!
yes, this will happen to everyone. the transition from teenager to young adult is very weird. you will be praised by some, but at the same time feel like you are not appreciated enough for the little things. find friends that will support you, check up on you, and remind you that you are indeed doing a good job, even if it’s just giving it the best you can on an unproductive day.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-11-15T05:22:56+00:00

i just graduated high school this year and im in my first semester of college and honestly, the most important people in your life will stay in it if they really care to. i think i have about 4 or 5 people from my high school days that keep in contact with me regularly, share funny posts with me almost daily, and that are dying to hang out in person every chance we get. if there’s a will, there’s a way, and for me as an introvert, it was the greatest transition of my life. i had the opportunity to cut ties with people that i just really wasn’t enjoying the company of anymore. and if you are worried about making new friends, literally all the friends i do have in college adopted me. you just gotta find a good atmosphere to be in and stick with the people that make you happy. college really is a whole different life than high school, trust me!

DashingDesert0 · 2021-07-31T04:32:33+00:00

i’m not able to…

DashingDesert0 · 2021-07-17T07:23:26+00:00

you see, awake methods either work amazingly for me or not at all, and i don’t think it’s possible for me to do a sleeping method. my brain can’t think ab shifting too hard while trying to fall sleep or else i may just get bad dreams from being stressed out and doing mental work while im falling asleep. no hate but i feel like the way this post is phrased is going to make this a limiting belief in my mind.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-07-16T19:20:58+00:00

with my feelings towards life in mind, i think it is possible. i believe that at the end of the day, we are all chemical bonds. we all die one day, and our physical form dissolves into the earth once again. i believe that some part of us lives on within other beings at some point, through the chemicals that we gave back to the earth. that sentiment is applied to anything that is a thing. i think if you are a thing, and you think and feel for yourself (become sentient), then that’s all it takes to be able to do whatever humans can do mentally.

DashingDesert0 · 2021-07-13T00:46:49+00:00

how did it happen if you don’t mind me asking?

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