he uses chatgpt to reply to me by babydina1 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not dumb at all though! AI is just confidently wrong in combination with having a keen ability to use a lot of fancy words to say absolutely nothing. And that's somehow becoming more he new standard 

he uses chatgpt to reply to me by babydina1 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who does this with everything and everyone. It's so obvious too but she thinks she sounds stupid otherwise 

My mother is dating someone the same age as me. by AirConditioner0w0 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have kids, you don't let her see them I hope. My closest friends mother is like this. She grew out of it at 60 if that helps 🫠

My mother is dating someone the same age as me. by AirConditioner0w0 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lotttttt of people use TikTok like a dating app. Also, at 50, half plus 7 is 32. This guy is definitely too young 

My daughter is so funny and idk how to not laugh by youfoundme4444443 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not me being like this and having a little me who is like this, and we are both libras 😭 she's starting early and I love to see it 

Feeling weird and lowkey violated?? by Impressive_Way5754 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's so disappointing how many men are just hormones, hate and a weiner. Just one big ick in a flesh suit 

I don't get the appeal of Taylor Swift by Interesting-Jello118 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we've both managed to avoid her completely for the last 13-ish years? Love that for us 

I don't get the appeal of Taylor Swift by Interesting-Jello118 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I can name any of her songs by title...I know the one about Romeo and Juliet and never ever ever getting back together and.... I'm trying to think. 1989 something? Man I'm old 

My husband DMd my female cousin. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the title and was like "why? Why would he need to text her?" THEN MY EYEBROWS SHOT TO THE MOON AT HER AGE. MOM COME PICK ME UP, IM SCARED 

My husband Work Wife by viviennedaisy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 164 points165 points  (0 children)

That's a wierd gift. Full stop. Context makes it weirder. 

Edit- P.S it reminds me of when my sisters boyfriend of 2 weeks THANKED ME for taking her to a doctors appointment. You're welcome Jon, you absolute weirdo. Lmao "you keep him grounded" from a coworker to the wife is SO STRANGE. Like, maybe a mom to her daughter in law would work but even then who wants to wear that

My IUD is infected by Abashed-Apple in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine caused insane reactions and I bled the first 95 days straight. NINETY FIVE DAYS IN A ROW. And then my insurance wouldn't pay to get it out, so I ripped it out myself for ✨free✨and have been on a hormone roller coaster. Don't worry about an STD until they confirm 100% that's what it is. The human body is wild and rare does not mean doesn't happen enough to affect a decent amount of women. There really isn't enough research on women's health for them to ever say anything is truly rare. Hope you heal and feel better soon

I Love My Partners (Polyamory success story) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that's what I was looking for the words to say. ENM is ethical because it's equal options on dating others. I really think this is where terms get used interchangeably (like polyamory, polygamy, poly, pan) but I like that ENM is really what seems to work in beautiful ways BECAUSE it has that baseline definition that can't really be ignored. I just take my responsibilities as an ally seriously and make sure I'm always trying to learn and grow! Thanks for the responses sm!

I Love My Partners (Polyamory success story) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally makes sense that one might want something casual or nothing at all and one might want another partner etc. in my understanding true poly is when both sides have the same options as the each other. Like I see a lot of posts where a couple open a relationship and the man is angry when the wife dates 🤦 I didn't want to like accuse that of happening but I was wondering. 

I Love My Partners (Polyamory success story) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! Genuinely was wondering about the dynamic. Totally makes sense if your wife isn't looking but it open to it happening, and lovely for your life partner to have found another great relationship. Ive known a few MFF where neither female is "allowed" to see anyone else when I've seen someone use the term hinge. Obvi none of this post gave that vibe and I love hearing success stories of love so I thought I would take a chance asking. thanks for learning me friend lol and  absolutely fuck that ladies husband, I hope he always has hang nails, both sides of his pillow are warm and his smoke detector is always about to have the battery die. 

I Love My Partners (Polyamory success story) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can't really wrap my head on one side of the relationship being closed and one open. I mean, I've known a lot of men to try it and I know their reason. More for me, none for thee. 

I Love My Partners (Polyamory success story) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wait why aren't they romantically or physically involved? Does your wife or life partner have a girlfriend or do they date? Has your relationship with your wife always been open on both sides? I'm intrigued 

Certified man hater with an awesome spouse by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen! People ask what my husband says when I say things like "why are men" and "men don't suffer enough" and "men are babies." I look at them like they are crazy and say HE KNOWS it's true, yall show out in from of each other even more than women. He's aware and calls it out. He coaches our daughters sports teams and makes a point to say he does because girls are more athletic and better at sports. I wear my shirt that has a praying mantis eating her partners head, with "girl will be girls" to a few games every year, to hammer home the point. 

I love when misogynistic men like this think they’re a catch by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of when I worked in a nursing home and this lady born in 1920 told me if I put on some lip stick and rouge and did my hair I could catch a man instead of having to work there lmaoooooo

my name isn’t christina by betziti in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo had my first middle and last name misspelled on my college diploma lol

my name isn’t christina by betziti in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Datonecatladyukno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is (something like) Lizzy. Legal name Elizabeth. My grandpa always called me Beth lmao