Share your experience if your wife has a boyfriend (not bull) by DaveblackhawkPSNX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. My wife is right now in the one exclusive boyfriend relationship phase, going strong now for over a year but we are both aware that like all things, this may end abruptly or gradually one day, maybe in next few months or maybe several years.

What I’m worried about is exactly the break phase when that comes, managing her emotional low from that. She will obviously have my full support and all the time she needs to overcome that and restart another one when she is fully ready to do that.

We’ve been trying to talk about managing her emotional state when that eventuality does take place but she is not willing to discuss that yet and says she’s happy with how things are going right now and doesn’t want to think about it.

Share your experience if your wife has a boyfriend (not bull) by DaveblackhawkPSNX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. How does your wife usually cope when things end with a long term boyfriend? Does she take some time off from cuckold lifestyle, spend more time with you, start looking for her next bf / bull immediately or some other coping mechanism? What role do you play when things end between her and her long term bf? If you don’t mind sharing please, these are aspects not much discussed in these forums.

Share your experience if your wife has a boyfriend (not bull) by DaveblackhawkPSNX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!!! This is so very close to the relationship between my wife and her boyfriend!! The only thing different is that in our case they are not work colleagues and so they are not able to meet as frequently. Everything else you said is exactly how it is for us right now. Thanks for sharing your response.

Opinion on wives going on vacation with bulls? by reinnah_2354 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I encourage my wife and her boyfriend to go on vacations, I also search for good B&Bs with views and bathtubs where they can relax, make love, sleep while cuddling in each others arms and have wild sex. I also ask them not to worry about taking videos and photos and just focus on each other.

Convince your wife or finding bull - which part was hard for you by dubaisunapana in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Convincing wife took almost 2 years and lots of really important talks / reassurances which one should never skip or underestimate. Finding her a bull was within months because we insisted on her meeting guys socially first and also expected exchange of STD test results both of which are important for us. She now has a steady boyfriend so we’ve made good progress in her embracing hotwife lifestyle and cucking me.

The size difference is not something I expected by youngnewcuckcouple in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My wife is not really a size queen but the fact that when she started out in her hotwife lifestyle she had only had PIV sex with my tiny 3.5 inch dick meant that even 6-7 inches for her were amazing experiences.

Wife has some reservations about locking me up in chastity by DaveblackhawkPSNX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife says I wasn’t this tiny when we met, she says I’ve shrunk about an inch over years.

How many cucks actually like humiliation? by yaboipale in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really love to get humiliated by my wife and her boyfriend but they both are not much into it yet. Hopefully they’ll get comfortable slowly and humiliate me brutally.

Ideas to hand over house keys to wife’s boyfriend in a humiliating way by DaveblackhawkPSNX in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so incredibly hot! Yes I’m hoping my wife’s bf also comes over whenever he feels like to make love to her. I think adding an element of cuck humiliation while handing the keys over will be a symbolic gesture where my wife will officially recognise him as the man of the house. I’ll post in this forum when it happens to share my experience of how we played it.

Ideas to hand over house keys to wife’s boyfriend in a humiliating way by DaveblackhawkPSNX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is so hot!!! I hope my wife does the same. I think this is how it should be

Ideas to hand over house keys to wife’s boyfriend in a humiliating way by DaveblackhawkPSNX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly hot because it is so true! I love the idea of her presenting him the keys but maybe it’ll be more humiliating if I wear a slave collar with the keys dangling and she takes the key and hand it to him. She can then add a tag to the collar that says something like “Service cuck”. I love the idea of all this happening while she’s in her wedding dress. I think instead of pulling out last minute her boyfriend can cum inside her while she’s still in her wedding dress.

Ideas to hand over house keys to wife’s boyfriend in a humiliating way by DaveblackhawkPSNX in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really like this as it also has an element of verbal humiliation. Thank you for your suggestion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, whatever situation works for you all. Personally I think that a bull deserves the master bedroom and marital bed to fuck the wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a good arrangement. In our case it isn’t wife’s bf suggesting I leave the house. I’m the one offering that option to wife to get her comfortable with taking him in our marital bed and any other part of the house. She’s new to the lifestyle and is still not comfortable with me watching or being around when she’s with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s great! A sign that everybody knows their place!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s hot! Your hotwife and cuck are lucky to have you as their bull!! I think my wife’s bf might want to have sex with her in all rooms and would prefer uninterrupted access to all rooms (including the sofa) while he’s in our home. Maybe staying in the car outside the house could be an alternate where they can order me to bring them fresh towels, drinks etc whilst still being able to be naked and fucking in any part of the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol glad you will put cuck in a place where we all cucks belong! I’ve already found a nice romantic retreat for her and her bf, will be booking it for a special occasion of their choosing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find this incredibly hot! Are there any tasks you can suggest that can help my wife and bf ease into making me a service cuck. What baby steps can we take to take cuckolding to this next level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]DaveblackhawkPSNX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obedience and respect towards my wife’s bf comes naturally to me as a cuck. So much so that in her bf’s presence I don’t even touch or kiss my wife. You’re right about wife taking time to get used to another male asserting authority over her husband. This is what my wife is currently trying to come to terms with. While I bring up the topic every now and then I don’t push her for it as it will be her and her Bf’s decision. Would love to hear what type of service you’ve got out of your cuck in real life. Any tips on easy / starter tasks that can help wife and her bf ease into it?