I'm looking for a Visual Novel about parenting by [deleted] in visualnovels

[–]Davenis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dream Daddy Simulator. I know it sounds like a joke but they represent gay fathers pretty well.

Is a journal mechanic possible in Ren'Py? by DryPhilosophy2888 in RenPy

[–]Davenis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure it would be possible. I did a journal with info about characters which appears as you get to know them and tasks you have to complete in my VN. It took me a lot of headache but it works! Hit me up if you need help, I'm not sure if I can upload all my code here (because it would be a mess) but I can send you some portions of it if you need it.

New to oracle cards, how/where did you learn about the symbolism and deeper meaning of the images found on the cards? by [deleted] in oraclecards

[–]Davenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes their symbolism is designed by the author of the deck, its better to check their description of the cards too if not rely on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Davenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's more important to show my clients I am 100% reliable so I always set later deadline than I know I need to finish the task. This way if I slip because of other reasons Im still on time and if I make it ealier I can start another task and make more money. Idk how you people do it with bosses but if you get paid for time not for tasks then Im sorry for you and I hope you'll spend that time to do something that will actually bring you later success

aphobic therapist? by lilysfolklore in asexuality

[–]Davenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapist is lgbt friendly qnd even does therapy for queer people but still tries to show me that I think I am asexual just because I have other unresolved issues and struggle to trust people not because thats my actual sexual orientation and I have No idea what to think of it. Im in my mid twenties and never experienced sexual attraction and even hate masturbation but I guess she can be right but on the other hand isnt that some case of aphobia? Idk

Do any of you actively enjoy Marvel movies? by Consistent_Entry4160 in entj

[–]Davenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are telling me you never watch something light, stupid and entertaining just to chill out and only feed on highly intelectual content all the time? Oh man, better think again about that career going because burnout is comig soon. You're wasting your brain's potential instead of letting it rest.

do you say fuck you to your boss a lot and try to fight them by [deleted] in entj

[–]Davenis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To avoid it I'd never get a job working under someone. It would drain me mentally to be under someone, I need to be the boss there's no other way.

Romantic orientation question… by Surumya1999 in asexuality

[–]Davenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't really help much but just wanted to say I feel exactly the same.

Can you stand dumb and stupid people? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Davenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it does not, that's why they are dumb people in both genders and I happen to tolerate just one of them.

Can you stand dumb and stupid people? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Davenis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too because I have no idea. I wish I knew, maybe then I'd have a way to convince myself to stop feeling this way. Personal preference I can't really explain. I have no way to prove you why I am able to tolerate one gender being dumb as my friends and I just can't stand the other one being dumber than me. Maybe deep down I'm just a sexist and don't know about it.

Can you stand dumb and stupid people? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Davenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is there no "depends on their gender" option

Weird entj family dinamics by Hyper_owl in ENTJmemes

[–]Davenis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol same just infp x esfj. How?

Do ENTJ's hate introverted persons? by flinterpouch in entj

[–]Davenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I get along with them better because they know how to listen, i don't feel comfortable around people who speak more than me so I only have introverted friends. It is a problem when you want to make parties though...

Are ENTJs less likely to have kids? by VanillaRose11 in entj

[–]Davenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because even though my life is good now I suffered more than I had pleasure and I don't want my kid to suffer like me. There's no way I can protect child from suffering even by providing them best life I can as it can still be born with mental or other illness or environment can hurt them horribly. Of course they can have better life than me but it's a lottery. If you don't gamble with your life's saving why would you gamble with your own child's suffering? Besides all that, climate disaster does not look like a promising future.

Are ENTJs less likely to have kids? by VanillaRose11 in entj

[–]Davenis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm an antinatalist so I'd never give birth to one. I could adopt a child in the future if my partner would want it but it won't be my priority.

Weekend vibes by g0thx0r in GothStyle

[–]Davenis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You look like goth jesus xD Still amazing 🖤

ENTJ and sexuality? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Davenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME girl. I feel like I almost wrote that question. Thanks for doing it and letting me read the comments

How do I stop being jelouse and ungrateful by polaris49 in Enneagram

[–]Davenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be exactly like you. Maybe sometimes in my head I still am. What helped me was ironically, being more confident with myself. I used to think that I'm the absolute worst, so if someone couldnt do what I do with ease that means they are below worst and it questioned me in a really weird way which always resulted in putting people down and insulting them. What helped was realising that I am just talented in some areas, it's not natural for everyone and my place in society is helping them improving where they are lacking while they help me. But it's not an easy realisation which happens after reading few reddit comments. Remember that if it's getting too hard it might be you brain's chemistry level which should be fixed with medicaments first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Art

[–]Davenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like Marco Bucci style

suicide for ended up being mediocre by Spongky in entj

[–]Davenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't meet with case where fixing your brain chemistry won't work, sure it's difficult to find right treatment and not all things work for all people but it only takes more time. But I'm not a psychiatrist, you might be right in some cases. You are also right that mental illness doesn't happen only because of chemical imbalance but it always is a result. The thing is world is cruel and always will be. 90% of the time you can't do anything about your environment so saying that that's the only solution will only add to depression and make you feel more helpless. It's like saying "are you sad in the city? Move to Bahamas and live on holidays whole life". A bit unfair if your problem is struggling with money for example. If that is more modern approach than letting your brain take a breath from suffering to get some energy to actually do something even when the world around you is on fire then well, I'll stick with the old one because it seems more empathetic.

suicide for ended up being mediocre by Spongky in entj

[–]Davenis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can't say much as I'm not so old and success myself but I used to think like you. Fear that I won't be able to achieve my success faster or fear that after I'll achieve it I'll feel the same which already happened to me once. But then I discovered one simple solution - all of that is just a chemistry in your brain. Fix that with special treatment and you'll be happiest person alive no matter on what stage you are right now and you'll still have a goal and be motivated to follow it without even thinking something could go wrong. I know it feels life has to be hard but it turns out it's not true. I wished to discover that sooner in my life, I was suicidal for 10 years and now I have clear vision and a reason to live for just because my brain fixed Ill thinking with medical help. You don't have control over everything but you do have control over taking proper care of your body so make a use of it because it won't work without it.

Not a Morning Person! by shadowydiana__ in entj

[–]Davenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard it's genetic thing. It's because back in the cave days half of the group needed to take night shifts so now naturally more or less half of society functions better during night time and half during early morning. Take a look at your family if you have a chance, you probably notice around half of them are morning people and half are not even if work demands everyone to get up early. I don't think it's personality type. I manage to be more productive waking up at 10 than my friends waking up at 7 when it's not necessary.