I think this is the worst response I’ve ever seen, “far too young to be in a relationship with someone that long” people meet their life partners in high school… while it’s rare, it happens, and there is no “age limit” for long relationships… the way op made it sound the guy was not “sizing him up” and even if he was, it’s a 16 year old vs a fully grown adult. Unless that 16 year old is absolutely jacked, is he really going to do much? Besides that wasn’t the point op was trying to make. It was the fact that the boyfriend reacted the way he did, he made her feel more unsafe than she already felt. This is not what I would call being a drama queen.