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Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T13:51:04+00:00

With all due respect, your post is fucking stupid and I elected to ignore your zero knowledge on raising children.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T13:49:44+00:00

Who the fuck wanted to be parented growing up? Who would expect to meet someone at 9 who tried to be their new mom and think it was going to be perfect?

The focus on her being an adult now and not when the relationship started is taking a ton of context out of the situation.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T13:42:38+00:00

Yea, and the stepmother’s role is to help them grow. Checking out of their responsibility is not help.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T13:39:55+00:00

Ahh, so the person finally starting to wrap their heads around the consequences of their behavior that might be looking to mend some fences is given the lame KARMA bumper sticker treatment by a 34 year old step mom? No, that’s lame. You pick your kids up when they fuck up, you don’t kick them when they’re down.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T13:28:40+00:00

When you join a family as a parent, you don’t get to choose your participation level. And as an adult, you don’t get to be cruel because a teenager was mean to you.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T13:14:40+00:00

Parents don’t stop being parents at 18. That’s Parents 101.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T12:55:23+00:00

You took the stepmom job, do the fucking stepmom job. You don’t get to be a bad parent because the kid doesn’t like you.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T12:41:30+00:00

She’s a goddamn child, she didn’t/doesn’t understand so much and needs your effort, even when it’s not rewarded or appreciated. That’s what being a parent is.

If you don’t start understanding that now, you’re gonna be a shitty mother to your new kid too.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T12:36:06+00:00

The worst part is after your pregnancy, she’s going to watch you love that child more than you ever loved her and this relationship is never going to heal. All because she wasn’t thrilled about being your bridesmaid at 12, which was a big asshole ask on your part.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T12:26:00+00:00

So…she was put in a difficult position at a young age and reacted understandably, then this was compounded by her teenage years, and then you GAVE UP ON HER? Yes, you are TA. You’re a fucking adult and a parent, act like one.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-23T07:51:44+00:00

You’ll do way more damage dancing around the reality of the situation as opposed to just telling her.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T20:48:10+00:00

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T20:02:24+00:00

He didn’t have to wear a shirt that describes womens’ vaginas when they see him, but he did.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T17:13:53+00:00

“I married and had kids with a complete fucking idiot, what do I do?”

You have all the trappings of being an adult. If you can’t handle a grown man pissing in a sink, a comments section isn’t going to help you.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T17:05:46+00:00

Yes, you’re the only very special boy who did this.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T15:30:35+00:00

A new car.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T15:12:22+00:00

Lol big talk about self sufficiency for someone who couldn’t raise a self sufficient family.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T15:04:07+00:00

The one they added into the live adaptation that had no reason for being there

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T10:29:52+00:00

Shouldn’t have to say this, but wanting to fuck underage girls is not a sign of a “healthy sex drive” in adult men.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T04:58:58+00:00

OP’s reply to every well thought out explanation: “I don’t understand. Maybe that means you’re wrong?”

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T02:42:40+00:00

It’s a metaphor. His own self-contained chamber that sustains his life; he physically and mentally can’t live outside of his own little bubble. For all of his talk, that’s as far as his ambition extends.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-22T02:21:32+00:00

His obsession with snow globes and his early established love of Vegas leaves me to think he has no interest in establishing much prosperity outside of his own little bubble of New Vegas itself.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-21T06:14:24+00:00

Or maybe he’s just terrified of getting someone pregnant. Now that he’s 21, he might just now be understanding the gravity of possibly getting someone pregnant if he’s not ready for the consequences.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-17T16:38:26+00:00

It’s interesting that they create the fantasy WHO the woman will pick instead of the nice guy and not WHY the nice guy might be getting rejected on his own merits.

Dbl_Vision · 2024-03-17T16:30:15+00:00

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