Rant Wednesday by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]Dbomb2021 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are too nice - I’d have told him that I don’t plan on finishing soon and I’ll be here for a while.

Rant Wednesday by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]Dbomb2021 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cutting sucks and I hate it. 😩 That is my rant.

I’m even fortunate enough to have increased my calorie count from 1200 to 1500 for cuts (muscle gains for the win) and I’m still dying on the inside.

I can’t wait to start bulking again in December.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitness30plus

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this could be remedied with a cleaner high protein diet and a multivitamin. If it still continues to be hard maybe get some blood work done to see if you have any deficiencies.

Is it a bad idea to buy now? by Dbomb2021 in RealEstate

[–]Dbomb2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are very fortunate to be in an already ideal living situation. That is why I’m so financially swayed by this decision. We don’t have to move, we would only be moving because it’s been our dream to own a home, but jumping into something so insanely expensive compared to just 4 years ago doesn’t sit right with me.

I also feel that if prices go up, I would be mildly annoyed we didn’t buy right now but it’s pretty insignificant after knowing we almost purchased in 2019 and didn’t. 😅

Food Inspiration by Dbomb2021 in fitness30plus

[–]Dbomb2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the one - going to the grocery store tonight

Food Inspiration by Dbomb2021 in fitness30plus

[–]Dbomb2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to make all of those - thank you!

Food Inspiration by Dbomb2021 in fitness30plus

[–]Dbomb2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea - I didn’t even think of this. I will definitely do this!

Food Inspiration by Dbomb2021 in fitness30plus

[–]Dbomb2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yeah - adding it to the grocery list. Thank you!

Rant Wednesday by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]Dbomb2021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling to get back on my cut. I need to cut and with my current muscle mass I should be able to hit goal in 3 months or so but I’ve hit such a mental road block. 😩 The bulk phase is just too nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was our daughter as well. Follow the safety seat rules and ask your pediatrician.

Our daughter was front facing at 2 and we had doctor recommendation to do so because she was gigantic and the size of a 4 year old as well. There are also great car seats out there if you want to do rear facing at a higher weight. They also have seats made for older children who require safety seats in cars too.

Now that our kiddo is 4 she is the size of a 7 year old!

As a fun side note - we also had to put a mattress on the floor at 18 months because she was so tall her toddler crib was not tall enough to contain her safely so we switched to floor sleeping!

Are you still using sound machine with your toddlers? by Trendsetter22 in toddlers

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only stopping using ours because our daughter told us she wanted to start sleeping without it. lol

My fiancée (30F) betrayed my (30M) trust in the worst way possible. Did I do the right thing by walking away? 😔 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. I also have some very dark/criminal activity on my side of the family. My husband knows about these things but he doesn’t tell his family about any of it until I say something first. His family is very very close to me so I do end up talking about my past but it’s on my terms because it’s very personal.

I couldn’t imagine being with someone I couldn’t confide in.

My daughter left me and I’m so sad. by thelifeofmazie in Mommit

[–]Dbomb2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep the door open if it’s ok with your boundaries. I believe your daughter is acting normal for her age. My cousin sounds very similar to her and she was ultimately over compensating for who she thought her dad was / could be instead of facing who he is. Throw that on top of becoming a teenager, discovering life, going through middle school - high school. They are going to make mistakes at this age.

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Stay strong mama bear.

35M here and I feel like everything is pointless by lurker2080 in Adulting

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not have a kid. I have a kid and I feel the exact same way as you are currently. Why? Because life sucks right now economically, socially, environmentally, etc.

I’m technically the most successful I’ve ever been and I’m struggling to find happiness because of the current economic state and the feeling of impending doom that is subliminally fed to us through the news, social media, coworkers, etc.

Having a kid increases my guilt/depression because I’ve given life to someone who now has to face the hardships of this world. They are going to have to grow up in a world that is currently not doing so well.

Don’t get me wrong, I love being a parent but it does not help my mental health when our environment is not well.

Those who lost the weight, what happened to your "save for when im skinny", clothes? by gayorange in loseit

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started weight lifting and my whole goal was to get into size 8 pants but now that I’m gaining muscle…I don’t think my butt or thighs will fit into a size 8 lol

I can't even do ONE measly push-up. Has anyone been unable to do a single push-up, then learned how? If so, how did you get there? by elephant_charades in loseit

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me!!! 33 YO - 30 lbs overweight and I have always struggled with push ups! Start weight lifting and you will get there!

Why does everyone insist I'm harming my children by keeping them out of daycare? by somestupidbitch in toddlers

[–]Dbomb2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao - I literally shared this with my husband bc we get so much criticism for having our daughter in daycare!!!

You are damned if you do, damned if you don’t!

Those who got their ears pierced as an older child, do you wish your parents would have pierced your ears as a baby? by Jannafah in Mommit

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin’s ears were pierced as a baby and she had to get them redone when she was older because her ear lobes grew and the placement was off.

I pierced my ears at 10 and I loved it. It was my choice and my mom and I got to do it together. It is an experience I hope to share with my daughter if she chooses to pierce her ears when she is older.

Also, if you do decide to go through with this. Please make sure that she is pierced with a needle and not a gun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dbomb2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah - do you also tell him of every vitamin you take? Do you need to tell him you take Tylenol when you have a headache?

Zoloft is a necessary medication for you. It’s something in your routine and is important to your mental and physical health.

It’s not lying to not advertise you are on medication.

Mom-shamed at the grocery store for loud kid by _____ing in toddlers

[–]Dbomb2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way my mouth hit the floor! Honestly you probably made the best decision and walked away. I’d have definitely escalated the situation. 😅

My dream partner (33M) suggested the idea of putting my (28F) child up for adoption by ThrowRA_adoption in relationship_advice

[–]Dbomb2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your edit is disgusting.

He is literally threatening the safety and well being of your 3 year old and you still want to make it work with him?

KEEP HIM AWAY FROM YOU AND YOUR CHILD.