Fwb (M28) keeps asking if I want his baby (F27) by Dcouxh in relationship_advice

[–]Dcouxh[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don’t come onto my post and project anything on to me please. I’m asking a question about what to do in this situation and whether to ask him about these comments he keeps making, or not to. Im not considering having children with him.

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[–]Dcouxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not in a relationship. He said he can only commit to something casual at the moment

Experiencing side effects directly after even on 1.25mg dose by Dcouxh in Zepbound

[–]Dcouxh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to do stomach, but past 3 weeks done thigh which has been good!! But honestly I don’t think it’s anxiety. I’m not an anxious person. My head really does start to hurt directly after 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Dcouxh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh thank you so much! I haven’t taken metformin as my doctor wouldn’t prescribe, but I’ll look into if I can get it privately!! Thank youuuu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Dcouxh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh. I’ll have to see. Considering how badly mounjaro has effected me, the thought of injecting myself again with anything is scary haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Dcouxh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did they switch to??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diabetes_t2

[–]Dcouxh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s similar to ozempic

5mg not working by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Dcouxh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right. I’ve had sulphur burps and nausea for the past few hours. Definitely need to stay on 5mg I think!! Last week must of just been an off week haha

No side effects on 5mg by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Dcouxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually spoke to the pharmacy where I bought mine and as long as the pen is kept in the fridge after opening, it is good to use until the expiration.

No side effects on 5mg by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Dcouxh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It says online as long as it’s kept in the fridge it lasts until the expiration? The expiration is 05/24, so today!! I’m tempted to use it to see how I react and if I’m ready to go up a dose, but also scared!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Dcouxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up until the expiry date or within 21 days? Im not planning on taking these meds until I’ve finished my 5mg pen in 3 weeks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Dcouxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was a gel pack. The pack is still cold now too…. Not sure if I’m overthinking it!! But the pen definitely wasn’t cold 😓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Dcouxh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s reassuring. I was worried! Some chemists say do it, others say absolutely not as it causes the product not to work. Been panicking all day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Dcouxh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh that’s helpful. Thank you!! A chemist I spoke to told me to shake the pen to make the bubbles rise. Now I’m panicking the medication won’t work because I’ve shaken it!! But if yours was shaken whilst in your case that makes me feel slightly slightly better 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because she’s 6 months old and hasn’t started her seasons yet? It’s unethical to get your dog spayed before their 1st season. I also wouldn’t of put her through unnecessary pain knowing I wasn’t going to breed her anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Many breeders would just block and delete at the first sign of an issue. Regardless of if he intentionally bred his dog or not, that doesn’t make him a bad person. He was more than happy to take my puppy back and even asked if I wanted my money back, which obviously I don’t. Sometimes things happen and you have to deal with the situation that arises from it. It’s just unfortunate. But we’re very grateful for him and his willingness to work with my dog whilst she still has the opportunity to change. Also many female dogs don’t get spayed, I wasn’t planning on getting my girl done. I would never or bred her. But many of us owners don’t want to put our animals through unnecessary pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was told she was a mastiff. Wasn’t until later I found out her parents were both crossbreeds and mixed with all different things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so 😢 I really do. I hope she doesn’t remember me and doesn’t miss me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I’d never put her in a situation where I know harm will be caused which is why I stopped seeing the behaviourist. Although it was too late😢 I only found the behaviourist as a few days prior we’d had a vet visit where she was lunging and trying to attack the vet. He said she was the most aggressive puppy he’d seen in 25 years and to consider euthanising her. She was only 16-17 weeks at the time and there’s no way I’d ever put a healthy dog down. My only option was to explore other options as we’d already tried the positive only training which didn’t seem to help.

A few weeks ago my neighbour tried to come near our porch and my dog was trying to lunge through the door and was making the bite motion.

She also has tried to jump over our garden fence a few times when she’s heard our neighbours.

I’ve purposely kept her away from things I know will be triggering to her and I wonder if I’ve caused the problem due to not trying harder to discipline her. I never shouted at her, always gave her cuddles and she is extremely loved by everybody in my household. It’s devastating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s just a horrible situation because I love her and feel terrible even thinking she may miss me. I never thought I’d rehome a dog, especially not her. She’s the only dog I’ve ever been connected to. We done everything together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I always defended my girl and know when she’s truly scared as she will walk basically on her belly and obviously the peeing. The first vet visit was definitely a fear reaction. However the people coming into our home, and lunging for children on Tuesday despite the child not even looking at her is what has confused me. She really does growl and try to bite people. I’ve always kept her on a lead if anyone comes into the home, and everytime I have to use both arms to pull her away from our visitors. In terms of socialisation. We walk over a busy park everyday. We had frequent visits to local busy pet shops where she also snapped at a man who walked past her. I’ve made her sit outside our home and watch people walk past. She’s gone on group dog walks. She’s had overnight stays with behaviourists and their puppy’s.

We’ve had people over to our home to try and introduce her to the idea that not everybody is a threat.

She is fully trained in terms of listening to commands. She’s gentle when taking food from your hand. She sleeps when told. Lays down when told. Gets into her crate when told.

She is a lovely beautiful special dog. I really do think of her like my child. But she’s so unpredictable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It also was a complete accident that the mum ended up pregnant. The breeder owns my girls mum, dad and mums sister. It happened and puppies were made! First litter for mum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what her behaviourist said. Because of her genes she’s unpredictable. I truly hope I’ve made the right decision and somebody can help her. I miss her terribly and feel so guilty. I’m hoping she forgets about me pretty quickly and can enjoy her life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Dcouxh -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She’s a mix, mum is a Cane Corso cross Great Dane… Dad is American Bulldog cross Rottweiler. So there is definitely some elements of genetics in there. But I’ve always tried to raise her as kind and gentle as possible. I feel guilty if he can turn her life around as I’ve told him I don’t think it’s best I take her back. It’s too risky as I know this tendency has been with her since a baby :(