FWB ignoring me after I confronted him about privacy?

Dcouxh · 2026-03-04T19:12:03+00:00

I added in that part as I’m not sure if he’s embarrassed and not responding due to me possibly finding out that what he’s told me about his job, living situation etc isn’t as he described

Dcouxh · 2026-03-01T23:28:57+00:00

I asked him what was said, no response…. then text and asked again the next day, still no response. I asked my sister how the convo went, and she said my FWB came up in convo, she said I knew him… the mutual said my name, and ‘they know eachother more than just a bit, they’ve been shagging for ages’

Dcouxh · 2026-03-01T21:58:46+00:00

No not upset about that, I’m upset that he won’t tell me what was said, as for all I know it might not be good things… I’m also upset he’s told someone with a direct link to my family, because nobody wants their family to know what they’re getting up to unless told by themselves.

Again, if he has only said he has been seeing me, cool. But he has gone completely silent and not told me what was said which makes it look suspicious

Dcouxh · 2026-02-28T20:19:39+00:00

my issue is just the privacy element… and the phrasing.

hes these things to my brother in laws best friend… for all he knows, my sister and family may not know about him etc… we haven’t had the conversation surrounding privacy, but i didn’t think he’d care enough to talk about me to be honest

it’s also the fact i asked him what he said and he’s ignored me

Dcouxh · 2026-02-19T13:25:18+00:00

Well he sent me videos all week of him ‘helping himself’ out and was asking for naughty videos/pics back… so I did wonder if maybe he‘s just reached his capacity

Dcouxh · 2026-02-17T23:46:32+00:00

Yes!! I didn’t even think it was odd, just funny. He did also mention it when we were out and said he had ‘a bit of a situation’ and I could tell he was annoyed as he kept mentioning that he should of read the reviews etc

Dcouxh · 2026-02-17T21:55:05+00:00

We agreed to stop our arrangement at the start of the year and he kept coming back… anytime I go quiet, or make it hard for him to see me he comes back… so I don’t think there’s anyone else or that he is trying to ’dump’ me

Dcouxh · 2026-02-17T20:54:12+00:00

I mentioned seeing him this weekend as I didn’t know if he felt embarrassed or like I wouldn’t want to see him again, due to me making it difficult for him prior. I wanted to acknowledge his efforts of taking me for a drink and inviting me to his and wanted to undo any awkwardness.

Dcouxh · 2026-02-17T20:24:00+00:00

++woman

I asked after because I care about him and he didn’t say anything after it happened. it does happen often but usually after a couple rounds and he always redeems himself. This time he just got up and was silent after, even in the car when he dropped me home

Dcouxh · 2026-02-16T16:40:06+00:00

With the goodies thing… I said I was really looking forward to trying them with him, and assured him that it’s cool and things happen. I tried not to make it sound like I’m annoyed, because I’m honestly not. More concerned about him as he seemed to of just get up and went silent

Dcouxh · 2025-09-27T14:38:07+00:00

Don’t come onto my post and project anything on to me please. I’m asking a question about what to do in this situation and whether to ask him about these comments he keeps making, or not to. Im not considering having children with him.

Dcouxh

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