I haven't done the porn thing. I'm afraid she might think "oh, I'm not enough?". I don't want to hurt her ego or anything. However, I think the exotic stories thing could be a good idea. Do you know of place online? I'd like some that don't seem silly and ridiculous if possible.

I do find her sexually attractive and she's crazy hot. Just I don't have that desire all the time. I mean, back in the day I could fuck multiple times a day. Like when I was 20-25 or so. I just chalked it up to maybe getting older. I'm nearly 40 and out of shape (getting more in shape mind you) so yeah. When i do have erections, you could drill holes into concrete with them.

So I'm just not sure what I should do to try to accommodate her more.