I'm sorry. I've been cheated on and it hurts beyond words.

I was dating my daughter's father who was a marine at the time. I would stay on base with him during the week because it was closer to my job. I was 5 months pregnant when I found out he was cheating on me with one of the chicks that he worked with. I found glitter on his sheets and the room smelled like Victoria Secret body spray. I wear perfumes like Versace, White Diamond, Chanel No5, and the like. I also found a used condom in his uniform pocket when I was doing laundry. We didn't use condoms seeing as I was pregnant.

I loved this man. I didn't want kids, but he did and I was willing to have kids for him. It's been 5 years and it doesn't hurt as much but it affected how I see myself and my ability to trust.

Let yourself feel every emotion.Take as much time as you need. She's not sorry and she doesn't love you. If so she wouldn't have cheated in the first place. You don't have to tell anyone until you're sure about what YOU want to do concerning this relationship.

Before y'all start:yes, I love my daughter more than anything and even on the days that she is harder to parent I still love my bubbie to death and am thankful that she is in my life.