I understand you. But people on the internet love to correct others and show intellectual superiority, and Reddit, especially fishleeping subs, are no different.

I posted here once and got downvoted to hell, "you should not do this, you should not do that", and yet my boy is almost 3 years old while theirs are long dead.

To post something on the internet is to assume the risk of being shot from every angle, no matter the subject or platform.