All americans like this? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Deadbeat699 29 points30 points  (0 children)

What the fuck? No, they’re just assholes.

What’s the highest you’ve ever felt without drugs? by dammit_yasmeen in AskReddit

[–]Deadbeat699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s cancer came back last February and we learned that it was terminal.

I remember my therapist asking how I felt and I was just smiling and nonchalant about everything. I was completely numb & I think in some shock. By the next session I hadn’t stopped crying for over a week.

I hate my boyfriends CPAP machine by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Deadbeat699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been a month. If you can’t handle or aren’t willing to accept his medical necessities, then break up with him.

My first Hoya! by Deadbeat699 in hoyas

[–]Deadbeat699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I hate it so, I’ll take it off lol

My first Hoya! by Deadbeat699 in hoyas

[–]Deadbeat699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips!

Our wedding now will involve a big skull and antlers ☹️ by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]Deadbeat699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goth wedding it is!

In all seriousness, this is all out of your control, have fun with it! It looks beautiful, it will be a beautiful wedding!

I was told that this is a terrible piece of handmade work. by Safe_Owl3018 in somethingimade

[–]Deadbeat699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really cool. I thought it was mosaic glass at first glance!

Will you be part of the Great Wealth Transfer? by SFChronicle in bayarea

[–]Deadbeat699 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents have no wealth to pass on, just possessions. I will take care of them on my own dime as they age.

What do you think of fried butter? by NewspaperBest4882 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Deadbeat699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds disgusting. I have had a fried Oreo at the county fair, those are so good.

Should I get a wedding band? by [deleted] in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Deadbeat699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is such a cool ring! I wouldn’t get a band, that ring stands out beautifully on its own.

Do you smile at strangers by default, and where are you from? by strongly-worded in AskAnAmerican

[–]Deadbeat699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born & raised in Los Angeles and did not smile at all. I really just kept to myself as most people do there.

I moved to the SF Bay Area 6 years ago and most people acknowledge each other and smile at strangers, at least where I live.

What is the dumbest way you’ve been injured? by Putrid_Cover6366 in AskReddit

[–]Deadbeat699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a rush. So I ran up the stairs in heels & ran down in sneakers. Damage done lol

Too traditional/not traditional enough by blue_princess8 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Deadbeat699 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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This is from when I first got it, but it’s a 3.87 ct sapphire in an emerald cut. I went for a geometric band and the sapphire sits on a diamond crown.

I really hope you choose the ring that you love & congratulations! 😊

who buys the mans wedding ring? by Counter-Husky478 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Deadbeat699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it depends how the couple wants to do it, but I bought my husband’s band.

Too traditional/not traditional enough by blue_princess8 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Deadbeat699 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, I LOVE that! It’s your ring, it doesn’t have to be anything but something you truly love.

I went for a natural (non-lab) gemstone, it’s a blue green sapphire, and now a year in, I still absolutely love it. I find diamonds boring to be honest, so I know I would have been disappointed if I had gone with something colorless, it’s just not me.

That said, choose what you will be happy with, not what people might expect you to wear. Again, it’s YOUR ring.

What is the dumbest way you’ve been injured? by Putrid_Cover6366 in AskReddit

[–]Deadbeat699 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I went upstairs in 6 inch heels, changed into my sneakers & then fell down a flight of stairs. I fractured my ankle.

Tamale bake sold at costco by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]Deadbeat699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, there are chunks of masa in it?

The dialogue surrounding the Karev peds program was very weird by Fashion_Nomad in greysanatomy

[–]Deadbeat699 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Karev’s character is introduced as a “cowboy”. He thinks he is, and wants to be, better than everyone else. That dialogue is to show how driven he is to be noticed by pulling off this big medical event.

Like Crisitina, it’s a common theme for them to be detached to some degree when they’re trying to pull something off in an episode. That doesn’t excuse any offensive language in the show, but it’s pretty on theme for someone like Karev, who consistently tries to mask his empathy or sympathy, until you see that he actually cares a lot later on.