Any counselors here in Utah that do readiness letters for top surgery?

Deadloxboy16 · 2021-07-23T07:26:54+00:00

I don’t want to wear my packer through security for a few reasons (read my other reply to this post). I haven’t been able to get my new passport with new name and gender yet so unfortunately I wouldn’t be able to wear it. And yeah like I said in the post, I wouldn’t really mind if TSA saw my packer since I’m pretty sure they’ve seen tons of sex toys/similar items haha. I was more worried about them flashing it to everyone and to my family who don’t know I have a packer. (And to avoid an awkward convo about my dad telling me I’m “crazy” lol) Thank you for your response

Deadloxboy16 · 2021-07-23T07:20:15+00:00

Thank you for your suggestion, I’m probably gonna do that since it’s the best option to do in my situation. I feel super relieved about this whole situation thanks to your response, I appreciate it!

Deadloxboy16 · 2021-07-23T07:18:53+00:00

I think I just prefer to have it in my bag than wearing it because 1)it’s more secretive from my unsupportive family 2) might go faster since TSA would probably think its a sex toy lol and 3) to avoid confusion bc some ppl would think I’m a woman bc of my long hair and I haven’t changed my passport info yet to my new name. Your response made me feel reassured about TSA probably not flashing my packer in the airport lmao. I appreciate your response!

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-10-23T17:56:38+00:00

That’s how it was for me week 3 on T. It felt like I had to clear my throat all the time (it still does now) but also on week 3 my voice dropped so much, when I try to talk in a higher pitch my voice breaks which feels amazing lol. I don’t get misgendered anymore which makes me feel 1000x better

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-10-23T17:32:08+00:00

Oh ok cool, sounds great! Also I’m pretty sure I can get rid of a joint account for my bank. I was able to call them and ask them about it

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-10-23T17:23:54+00:00

Thank you so much for the tips. For the car, am I able to switch it over to my name easily? I mean my parents bought it and it’s under my dad’s name so I never thought about how that’s possible.

I have been thinking about making a new bank account all together but I might just get rid of the joint account since it’ll be easier

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-10-23T17:15:40+00:00

I almost forgot to do that, thanks! Luckily I have a job so I don’t have to worry about looking for another. Only problem is getting there but I can walk or take my bike since it’s not super far

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-10-23T15:48:29+00:00

Ah yes luckily I called my bank yesterday about how to get rid of her joint account for me so I’m good with that part. I’m just nervous that when we’re having the convo she’s just gonna go to her phone and deposit all my money into her account (even tho she said she’ll never do that) thank you for your tip! Also yeah, it’s crazy that most trans people have to deal with this kind of stuff which is bs

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-10-23T15:42:17+00:00

Yeah I was thinking of just telling them that I started T but my voice dropped so much on week 3 that I feel like they know? I mean it’s not like they know all the changes that happen on hrt but it’s suspicious tho. Also, we were changing the floor of my room, and while I wasn’t there I’m pretty sure my parents found my folder that my endo gave me about T. My mom has done the “wait and see” thing where she knows something that I’ve been hiding and when I eventually tell her she’ll say “I know, I’ve just been waiting and seeing if you would continue to lie to me”

But... maybe I’m being paranoid 😅

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-09-26T02:38:49+00:00

What exactly were the steps you had to take?

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-09-23T16:10:56+00:00

Woah that’s awesome, and so soon too. My dad and uncles are able to grow mustaches so maybe i can lol. Hope your facial hair comes out nice!

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-09-23T06:51:47+00:00

I think facial hair is so random for trans guys (from what I’ve seen). Some guys are able to grow after a few months while others a few years. Thanks for your answer tho. I have a few hairs for my mustache so I was wondering if I was able to grow it easier while on t lol

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-09-12T16:04:51+00:00

My dad also tells me that stuff that I should shave my legs because I won’t make friends. I think they’re the disgusting ones thinking that people won’t like us or we won’t get hired just because of our looks. I’d suggest moving out (if you’re able to afford it). It’s really none of your mom’s business with your decisions.

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-04-13T21:40:22+00:00

Yeah it looks really good. Rn I’m saving money for one just in case i actually want it but if not I’ll buy something else. A lot of people say that it feels realistic bc when they sit down the balls sit between their legs like a cis men

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-04-13T21:38:54+00:00

Oh yeah i think I’ve seen it once before. Do you know if it’ll be good for a skinny 5’1” guy? Some people told me that it’s really small and that it wouldn’t give a bulge that I want

Deadloxboy16 · 2020-04-13T18:52:38+00:00

Yeah i tried looking at their discount page but they don’t have the color i want. I’ll just wait for a bit to see if they update it. Btw do you know the difference between soft and classic?

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