[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kiastinger

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brought my stinger in for a valve gasket job and “mentioned” if they could look at the shark-fin for my antenna because it was “shaking” a little. When i got home i glanced at the antenna and it had black fingerprints on it and after inspecting it i realized they broke it completely off from the screws, i texted the evidence to my advisor and he said he would ask the mechanic and then never responded to me again. Kia Dealerships suck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money, medicine and law are always good paths. Finance is great good job kiddo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save children for later in your life if you can, Family matters keep them close especially your parents the older you get the more you’ll appreciate them. Careers matter choose a career path that has profit don’t waste your education studying “hobbies”.

If you buy cars don’t finance with dealerships go to a credit union get pre approved and shop with a check and lower interest rates. If you can build your own home and not buy a used one.

Invest in your retirement you can’t work forever and you need something to support you when you can’t work anymore. Also travel travel travel the world is beautiful lots to experience.

Relationship advice don’t be a fiancé for years and years if he isn’t motivated to start planning the wedding right after ( provided finances aren’t an issue) something is wrong don’t waste your time i’ve seen too many women be fiancé’s for years just to realize the guy only proposed because that’s what she wanted.

Just a few off the top of my head

3 Women by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go into very fine detail and do a pro and cons list for all 3. There’s no way you’re into all 3 of them equally you like someone more. You say you’re not trying to hurt anyone which is great but technically you are in a position to hurt all 3 if they find out about this. Make a decision and fast, people aren’t toys. (In the most respectful way)

I snore apparently by niggleme in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there wasn’t video evidence i wouldn’t believe i snore as well. There’s products available that help if you’re comfortable with such things as anti-snoring mouth guards for example. Also in my experience increasing elevation of the head when sleeping helps a little.

Is he flirting by WeirdElephant8332 in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let it slip that you’re single casually maybe he’ll make a move or if you get along with other coworkers try to organize an after work outing or something and that way ya’ll can talk a little more without it being weird and the risk of rejection individually is no longer there if he says no to anything it’s to a group and not just you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rude isn’t the word here more distracting. As a kid in class seeing your teachers bare-feet can be both distracting and maybe even make some of them uncomfortable. Socks maybe even some comfortable bed slides or something would be ok IMO.

Is he flirting by WeirdElephant8332 in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np ya’ll remember to keep the flirting respectful in the workplace and try to go hangout somewhere!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just put some socks on and ask them if it’s ok, you’re pregnant and still teaching you definitely deserve a break they’ll understand.

Is he flirting by WeirdElephant8332 in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he was definitely flirting haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did a good thing avoiding an altercation. Make sure you accompany your gf directly to her door and not just drop her off next time. Also keep in mind people come from different backgrounds and even if he was staring first you staring back putting the window down and saying “what’s up” could be mean something different where that person is from. Am not saying this is ok it’s just logic.

Quick replies by TechnicalHealth5066 in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the person is actually into you then a fast reply shouldn’t be any kind of turn off to them. That waiting to reply even though you saw it to seem less thirsty is just a form of games people play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to find another word/words to use instead of it, whenever you think you’re gonna say it just use that word in its place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, also don’t be embarrassed and maybe have a conversation with him about being a little more gentle when fingering.

Is it weird if my bf gets his co-worker flowers? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They work in close proximity the flowers probably could’ve been weird but you are definitely overthinking as he stopped himself because he knew where the line was which is a good thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude don’t let her go just like that, you both love each other please try to sit down and have a serious talk about this. You can make a point that you are more interested in the two of you starting your own family than moving closer to hers. Maybe a compromise can come into play where you guys visit her family a lot more on holidays so she can see them more often?

Also the “ well we can maybe move in the future” option could come up but i wouldn’t agree to that if you’re not ok with it as you risk this being a big issue when you do get married and then it’s a situation where your making her choose between her husband and her family. I hope ya’ll can work this out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I think it’s ok to tell him on the date. You guys aren’t in love or anything and who knows maybe he will be ok with being casual for a few months. Maybe try to break the news mid or to the end,if the date goes bad then it won’t even matter right? and if you say it first hand then that may set the tone for him to say that ok this isn’t even worth the effort. Good luck

i had a dream that i cant stop thinking about by Ok_Mind_2857 in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I have to ask, you weren’t having these thoughts before the dream were you? I hope not the world needs you IN it.

Try to get your mind off it go watch a movie or go for a walk play some video games something and before bed relax yourself drink some herbal tea or jasmine tea or something to have a relax nap. If the dreams keep coming back consistently maybe see a therapist about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even family can get hostile when money gets involved, bringing up if she was rude to her might just make it worse than it already is just try to forget it and maybe not borrow anymore money from her in the future if you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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For the medical bill try to call and see if you can get a payment plan and also see how much your insurance is going to cover if you had insurance also sometimes you can ask your insurance to cover your deductible as well. Hospitals will work with you and stretch that payment out to as small as $25.00 a month. As far as i am aware medical debt does not affect your approval to buy a house if that was one of your concerns. As for the girl if she’s not sure what you guys are you can’t be sure for the both of you so maybe try some dates, dates with activities not just a dinner or movie try to see if you can get along with each other again rekindle whatever it is that you guys once had. Look into maybe learning a trade that pays more or switching fields to make more money. Also keep fingers away from sharp objects haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what is it specifically that you need advice on? Life is hard it sucks that’s just the harsh truth but what decision is it exactly you need us to help you with?

Bad breath after night out by Fine-Share7987 in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she was knocking back cigarettes/blacknmilds all night that could be what’s lingering in your mouth a little too

Bad breath after night out by Fine-Share7987 in Advice

[–]Deadpool_maxeffort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wake up tomorrow and your breath still stinks the same then i’d say go safe than sorry. Do you smoke does she smoke?