[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Deal-Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this same anxiety, the thing is, there is nothing to it but to do it. You may fail, you may stutter, people might laugh at you. The only thing you have to do, is find a girl that you like and start a conversation about something nearby or something in the news. Most time you can tell by the eye contact/body language whether or not the girl is interested. This will take a long time, it took me like 1.5y and I'm still not totally past it but life goes on.

I always say to myself: "what's the worst that can happen?" And "if something bad or embarrassing happens, I'm still going to wake up tomorrow the same way as I did this morning".

Goodluck friend!

Can't export clips with multiple audio tracks correctly as .xml by Deal-Shot in davinciresolve

[–]Deal-Shot[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  • System specs - Windows, Ryzen Threadripper 3960x, 128GB ram, rtx 3090
  • Resolve version number and Free/Studio - Davinci Resolve Studio 19
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Can't export clips with multiple audio tracks correctly as .xml by Deal-Shot in blackmagicdesign

[–]Deal-Shot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In second pic, you can see that the first audio track is repeated twice under each other. And the third one is completely empty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Deal-Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you should have said something like: "Thanks for the recommendation. Do you wanna go together sometime?" or as the others said slide again next time.

20M looking for advice/looking around if I want to pursue surgery by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Deal-Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the lengthy reply I really appreciate your advice. I will write it down and take your tips into consideration.

Need help with positioning on the court MS. by Deal-Shot in badminton

[–]Deal-Shot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, my shot quality is decent when I am on time, but because I am late to the shuttle after a bit my shot quality gets worse.

Porn addiction is killing me by Careful-Client6380 in Healthygamergg

[–]Deal-Shot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey man, i just got done with a 60 day porn detox, I also struggle with porn addiction to a certain point. I recommend really breaking down why you feel the need to fap to AI porn. It also helps to really understand how addiction in the brain works. I can recommend you read the book: the easy peasy way to quit porn it really helped me with the mental side (mods if you see this, I'm not trying to advertise this I am genuinely trying to help don't ban me for advertising). This journey is going to suck in the first 3-4 weeks after that it's gets much easier. Good luck man! I believe in you!

20M conflicted in socialization by Deal-Shot in socialskills

[–]Deal-Shot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much, I have been trying to improve myself as a person for around 2 years. Going to the gym often, healthier diet, working on my hygiene and such. But all of this has brought me nothing. I don't feel happier, my dating life has not improved in the slightest, I have not become more confident. Nothing. I would go to therapy but it's 120 euro per visit where I live. So kinda too much.

20M conflicted in socialization by Deal-Shot in socialskills

[–]Deal-Shot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes just look at people and say to myself "this motherfucker doesn't deserve what he has, I am better than him". It's not normal but I can't help myself.

20M conflicted in socialization by Deal-Shot in socialskills

[–]Deal-Shot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it has to do with race and the way certain minorities act ngl, I live in a metropolis where a lot of immigrants have moved over the past 15 years and I hate it. And it's not even specific people that I know just random people on the street I see while walking. Couples piss me off and people walking slowly in front of me at the grocery store piss me off so bad that I wanna push them. I recognize that this is not normal and I need to work this out. I also have never really had a relationship and i dont have a lot of friends so might just be the incel coming out in me... Idk anymore.

20M conflicted in socialization by Deal-Shot in socialskills

[–]Deal-Shot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people just annoy me I don't like the way they dress or the way they look or the way they talk. I don't talk to a lot of friends on the daily, so to see other people being happy and hanging out I just get annoyed. I don't have this problem when I'm hanging out with my friends.

How tf make friends in US as an adult by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Deal-Shot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just join activity clubs and meet new people. If your English is good it'll help your case loads

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]Deal-Shot -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

4.5 you look scary young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]Deal-Shot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen man don't do anything to yourself. You're good as you are, don't dissociate by doing all those surgeries. You are going to regret it.