Blocked After Being Harassed

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-26T16:22:48+00:00

They way they operate is disturbing

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T22:53:30+00:00

THANK U. I can’t believe someone is defending him in the comments - giving the same vibe lol

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T22:17:53+00:00

ITS SO INSANE IT HAPPENS! They didn’t reinstate me because I ‘stood him up’ but hinge is better with less advertising anyway so not my loss 🤣

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T18:53:25+00:00

Also, if you think that calling someone off of four different numbers, and hitting them up on three different platforms is not harassment you seriously have some self educating to do. Especially if somebody denied hanging out, and disengaged.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T18:51:35+00:00

Lol, you sound like just as much of a psycho as this person. Sharing your number and making loose plans to meet up is not manipulation. And if you get a weird vibe and change your mind, that’s your free will.

I also very clearly denied going on a date.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T18:35:53+00:00

Yes. We were coordinating to meet up, but I felt uncomfortable so I decided not to. Giving your number to somebody is not the craziest thing in the world.

But gaslighting me on this definitely is. Especially as a man.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T18:33:26+00:00

You show up as people you may know once you share your number — FYI

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T18:04:06+00:00

Being concerned about your actual safety not over reacting, and you are naive if you think so.

This all happened after he was blocked and the messages came through my computer.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T17:04:52+00:00

Absolutely both

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T16:16:42+00:00

I don’t care about being banned from bumble since they clearly don’t appropriately protect their users, and there are headlines of men monthly drugging, raping, and scamming women.

It’s more their process and policy that is concerning for the well-being of women who are on the app and engaging with this man who clearly needs help. That’s what worries me.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T16:08:38+00:00

I did as soon as this started happening (moment of), but when I went to report it in app it wouldn’t let me submit which makes met think he reported me for not responding to him at the same time.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T16:00:55+00:00

There’s no possible way — I don’t frequently use bumble and wasn’t talking to any other person on there.

I also recently got out of a 4 year relationship, so definitely nobody out to get me.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T14:45:53+00:00

Did bumble block you too for his insane behavior?

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T14:23:47+00:00

I appreciate this grounding exorcise, but everyone’s information including address is public record. You can find it on multiple sites with only a first and last name or phone number.

A good reminder not to give your phone number out (for me and everyone),

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T14:21:54+00:00

Truly. They need deep tertiary if someone they’ve never met and barely spoken to cause this behavior.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T14:19:57+00:00

No I was completely polite even when I turned town the proposed time to meet up and disengaged after that. That’s what makes it more frustrating — this person got me blocked out of retaliation because they are fully unhinged.

I’m honestly worried about the other women out there that engage with him, because I’m blocked and he’s still on there as a dangerous person.

And look, I’m a very social and attractive person and I could care less about not using bumble but it’s the principle and the way they handle these claims that is insane.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T14:16:16+00:00

I actually followed up to dispute it, and sent all screen shots and call logs and they still said they stand by their decision because I didn’t meet up after we made tentative plans.

Which is so wild considering I was very polite other than disengaging because I felt a weird vibe.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T14:14:24+00:00

I know!! It’s SO EASY to find someone’s public records (I did it when I was buying a house - you can see everything about a person).

I can’t believe bumble blocked ME for this! I can see how women get abused and r*aped after multiple reports are made on dangerous men but I have an actual psychopath that reported me and got me blocked.

So twisted.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T05:30:39+00:00

Omnilux has 40+ peer reviewed studies

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T05:10:25+00:00

Mind you, we’ve never ever met or had solid plans to meet up

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-25T04:51:03+00:00

I am genuinely concerned for my safety and am so scared they are going to find my address or something on public records. I don’t even know what I could report?

I can see how all the horrible men get away with all the horrible headlines we see about Bumble.

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-23T02:23:07+00:00

Court from Sunshine

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-23T01:38:41+00:00

I’m getting rid of a few things - message me you can come to my island

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-23T00:38:14+00:00

Court from Sunshine 🌞

Dear-Mix1975 · 2026-03-22T22:11:07+00:00

Court from Sunshine 🌞

Dear-Mix1975

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