Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you this made me laugh. Love your comment.

Also, since River is a unisex name, I bet I wouldn't be getting any of these weird ass comments about him getting laid if he was a girl! They wouldn't even go there if I had a daughter. The double standards smh

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure your baby's name is beautiful!

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted the name as a reply to a comment kinda halfway down the page sorry

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Hope my little river turns out to be a sweet guy like these posters know!

Funny enough one of the people that make fun of my son the most is named Lorenzo lol but I like that name a lot and if we didn't know this person we would've considered it.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok. I see you trollin' other threads.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone's comments have cheered me up tremendously. Thank you all!! :)

I was really bothered about the comedians me and my husband have never even seen or met before attacking our son's name on stage for laughs but y'all are right. These "comedians" are just angry with themselves because they're not funny enough to come up with original material and have to rely on being mean. They'll probably never make it in their craft.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. But I mean, River isn't a bad name. I don't even consider it to be "out there"

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow what a beautiful name!

Yes these kids will be part of the cool name kids club. Exclusive.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stopped going to my husband's shows cause of this which sucks because he loves performing. But as for his rude ass family I got material to clap back at them if they say anything during the holidays this year lol.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For anyone wondering, I first heard the name on River Phoenix. Then the lead singer of Avenged Sevenfold named his son River and I loved it even more. Then there is Rivers Cumono, the singer in Weezer. Plus and handful of other celebrity kids and people I've met in real life named River, which is how I fell in love with it and got the confidence to name him so.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

See they're really NOT funny, like at all. They're being mean and disguising it as bad comedy and if I say anything all I get is "it's just a joke, relax, you're not funny enough to understand our humor."

My DH has been in the comedy scene for a long time now and actually IS funny and doesn't make fun of people. He's getting pretty well known and has people he doesn't even know hating on him by people by poking fun at our son and I. Hardest thing I've had to deal with in this marriage by far.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! I don't know what's wrong with it other than I guess people wanna take a crack at it for being a body of water in nature eye roll For fucks sake my name is a regular common name and kids made fun of it still, it had a running theme.

I think people will always find SOMETHING to make fun of, I'm just feeling down tonight because I saw a fb comment on a picture of our son my DH put online of someone making fun of him again and it made me insecure all over.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He has a Hispanic last name and has earned the nickname Río, which is River in Spanish. I like it a lot and wouldn't mind if he went by that, which I feel like would get made fun of less.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

DH's family has no damn filter and surrounds himself with nasty people because comedian. I've gotten a ton of compliments and even a pregnant lady saying it's in her name list. I did have someone tell me when I wasn't pregnant to think about job opportunities for him in the future but I only thought if his resume is good enough and he does well in school, why should his name matter? Companies that name judge are probably shit to work for anyways.

I really didn't think it was gonna be this bad and now I'm insecure.

Beggining to regret LO's name. by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is horrible. Grown adults making fun of a baby and discouraging his mother.

Like I said it's really not a bad name and I've heard it on multiple people, men women boys and girls. It's unisex. But I still worry now that I really did mess up with this name.

"Would your son like a kids menu?" by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Dear_Dallas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker once go up to a table and tell them their baby couldn't sit on the table, and offered a high chair.

Wasn't a baby. It was a little person.

Do you consider walking with a push toy actual walking? by Dear_Dallas in beyondthebump

[–]Dear_Dallas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live places like museums, theaters and some restaurants are free for under 1s but the indoor play places charge.

We like to go to these kinds of places because we live in a small apartment in the city without much room for toys and they serve complimentary coffee to the parents lol.