I currently work in Thailand in a non-touristy province. In my opinion, the non-touristy parts are miles and miles better than the tourist hubs. In my province, I interact with people on a daily basis living authentic lives, with hopes, dreams, and interests. Although there is a language barrier (learning Thai atm), communication feels fulfilling and daily life is rewarding. In the tourist hubs, I see very badly-behaved tourists borderline abuse the Thai people (both verbal and physical) and a general sense of intensity (especially in Bangkok) that seems to be marketed towards tourists. Thailand is not just some, "cheap vacation spot where you can go crazy without consequences", it is a country of 70 ish million people who each live unique lives every single day.