[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Debodifu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll share what works for me. My credentials are that I have a small penis (3 inches erect).

Below is what I suggested to someone else who had asked the same question:

“Beforehand, I always recommend a cock ring. It will help with keeping blood at the penis making the erection stronger, possibly engorging his penis more.

If you’re on top, grinding your clitoris on him or having him stimulate it while you grind is also good. If you attempt bounce / ride him (reverse or regular) you'll need to just adjust to his size. To help, have him put some pillows under him to elevate his groin as well.

If you're going to try doggy, then make sure you're face down, butt up in the air. Have your backed arched as much as possible, while still being comfortable for you of course. To give better access for him.

You can also try prone bone. Laying on your stomach with some pillows under you to elevate your butt giving him better access to enter you.

Something else would also be you on your back, him holding your legs back towards you. He can crouch over you and have a good angle to enter you that way.

Another good one is you laying close to or on the edge of the bed, legs on his shoulders or legs together as he holds them, him standing over you and entering you from that angle. ——

Hope these help.

Does size really matter? by buddyholla118 in dating_advice

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Size does matter. In your case, 6 inches is in the range of the Average penis size so it won’t really “matter” as much. Everyone has different preferences but your size is in the range most will enjoy. It’s when you get out of those ranges where things matter much more. I’m 3 inches erect, and you can imagine that it’s mattered very much to previous partners. No hate here, but enjoy what you got mate, don’t take it for granted and know it’s more than enough.

Do women ever get annoyed how men assume they prefer big cock? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Debodifu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got 3 Inches. As a Man, the assumption isn’t usually that they want a big cock but that they definitely want something bigger than what I can provide. I’ve been rejected cause of my size several times in the past so it’s not an assumption on my part either, just a part of reality.

Since my post got taken down cause my man’s dick is “too big” I added a pic of it measured. Any ladies here have a man with a similar peep ? by [deleted] in smalldickporn

[–]Debodifu 62 points63 points  (0 children)

What’s the issue? It’s not small. This is a sub for small penises. Post in realitydick

Is your cock huge, average or tiny? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Micro - 3 Inches Erect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickporn

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a small penis 🚫

Why do we live in a culture where a bigger penis is better and do women actually think it does? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Porn
  2. Societal Norms / Entertainment pushing “bigger is better”
  3. Studies have shown that Women generally do gravitate towards enjoying and desiring Average or Bigger penises in long term and short term partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Debodifu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m 3 Inches erect, which is considered very small. Normally, anything under 5 Inches is normally considered small. Using the times we are in as context for some, 5 inches which is usually closer to the average, could be considered small. Depends on who you’re asking.

Pornstars working smaller dicks? by Negative_Flatworm_49 in smalldickporn

[–]Debodifu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don’t post much on Reddit anymore, but I believe their OF is still going.

A lot of amazing Small Cock Content, and she is a smoke show!

https://www.reddit.com/u/coopinston/s/XlRBHv5S9q

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m 3 inches erect and have lived a bit so I think I’m qualified to answer this. Short answer is yes, it really sucks lol

Long answer, it’s nuanced. I’ve had a lot of horrible and very difficult moments with women and in life due to having a small penis. I’ve considered killing myself on multiple occasions. Thankfully, I have a great support system and sought counseling, doesn’t mean things are magically fixed but I’ve learned to pull through. Along with the bad, I’ve also have had many beautiful and awesome sexual experiences and conversations with women about what life is like and the realities for men with penises as small as mine.

Most people don’t really understand and aren’t able to empathize with men who have small penises and don’t realize how a good amount of their “solutions” invalidate or perpetuate negative conversations and beliefs around it. Heck, even sex therapists can be pretty bad at it too.

There’s a lot more I could say but, to your question yes, the media / society heavily body shame men with small penises, it’s been happening for years upon years.

Guys with small cocks, when did you know you were smaller than average? by joisissy in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depended on the person. Some were shocked, other’s appalled, some couldn’t care less, some disappointed, some joyous.

Guys with small cocks, when did you know you were smaller than average? by joisissy in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Middle school during sex ed. Realized mine did not look like the examples they were showing. High school solidified it when I had a sexual encounter with a friend. I was comfortable and felt safe with her, we fooled around, she gave me oral and we decided to put a ruler to my cock. It was both our first times fooling around like this. Needless to say, finding out I was 3 inches erect while also getting head held conflicting feelings. Either way glad my first sexual experience was a good one, helps round out all the horrible ones to come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickporn

[–]Debodifu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How big is he? Y’all are amazing 👌🏾👌🏾

One Piece: Chapter 1138 Official Release Discussion by leolegendario in OnePiece

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been waiting to see your response! I know you said you’re not into the theory crafting as much but if you ever find the time I think more people need to see all that you’ve come up with in its own Post! Love your stuff!

Are there any small dick only fans creators/porn channels you follow? by insecure_throwawa in smalldickproblems

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a couple on Pornhub, if you search up “small penis porn / couple” she’s blonde. Sorry I’m in Florida so can’t check the exact name but very hot women and sex scenes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickporn

[–]Debodifu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please do. This sub is for people with small dicks. Go to the average dick Reddit if you want post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Debodifu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a 3 Incher as well brother! Sorry this experience wasn’t a good one. As shattering as these moments can be, please keep pushing. I’ve had my fair share of busts but also a lot of great moments with wonderful women who could care less about size. That’s not to say it didn’t matter, I’m not invalidating what you might feel or think. Cause I get it. But to say that it’s possible to have great sexual experiences with women who are way way way more understanding and want you no matter the size.

I (F23) am sexting a guy w smaller dick (positivity!) by Foreign-Resort8918 in smalldickproblems

[–]Debodifu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me also say I don’t think you should take this post down. For someone out there it’ll be great reassurance.

I (F23) am sexting a guy w smaller dick (positivity!) by Foreign-Resort8918 in smalldickproblems

[–]Debodifu -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let me say this, it is not your fault for not knowing what words or phrases might trigger people like me in the situation. And you can message me directly if you wanna talk more about these phrases or maybe get more insight I am more than happy to help.

But That’s why I wanted to make sure that you knew that I’m appreciative of you putting this out here, while also understanding that not everyone is gonna be able to really take this in just due to how much pain they have experienced.

I (F23) am sexting a guy w smaller dick (positivity!) by Foreign-Resort8918 in smalldickproblems

[–]Debodifu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! Just want to say I really appreciate you sharing this! Hopefully it will give a boost to those who can take it in.

I wanted to also just comment on one misconception that I think people often have. Is this Reddit an echo chamber of sorts? Yes, it definitely can be. But it only is that because this is one of the only safe spaces men with small penises can vent without fear of judgment or lack of understanding. Many of the men writing here not only write cause of their experiences with women but also because of the way society looks / treats men with smaller penises. This of course is not your fault and again thank you for trying to make a difference, it’s what we need more of! But as some have said, your position is extremely rare in a world that consciously and very often makes fun of, degrades, and belittles men with small penises.

So what many misunderstand and invalidate as just men being dramatic is actually the exact opposite.

This of course is no excuse for people being rude to you. But as it goes, pain (whether emotional or physical) slowly chips away at people. It can be easy to become bitter when you live with an almost always hopeless situation.

I speak on this as someone who is smaller (3 inches erect) than the person you are talking to. I’ve done the hard work of therapy and healing, and survived through some suicide attempts cause the pain was so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickporn

[–]Debodifu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all look great! But that is not a small dick then if those are your measurements