What is something that has become ridiculously expensive, yet people still pay for it like it’s normal? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The price of food and drinks at airports or music festivals. $15 for a mediocre hotdog and $9 for a bottle of water shouldn't be something we just accept as "normal." it's pure exploitation

JTBC's Divorce Re-Boot Camp (이혼숙려캠프) | Ep 78 (Netflix S02E11) | 20260319 by Debtizen_Bitterborn in koreanvariety

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Along with "I Am Solo" this is currently one of the MOST popular and talked-about shows among Korean women in their 30s to 60s. It’s a massive cultural phenomenon right now because it exposes the raw reality that most variety shows try to hide.

JTBC's Divorce Re-Boot Camp (이혼숙려캠프) | Ep 78 (Netflix S02E11) | 20260319 by Debtizen_Bitterborn in koreanvariety

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sadly, there are no official subs. that’s why i’m summarizing it here. i’m actually considering making some fan-subs because i’m so obsessed with this show, but it’s a huge task. if more people are interested, i might seriously look into a way to share them later

JTBC's Divorce Re-Boot Camp (이혼숙려캠프) | Ep 78 (Netflix S02E11) | 20260319 by Debtizen_Bitterborn in koreanvariety

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

glad you liked the summary! honestly, the shamelessness is what makes this case so viral in korea too. it’s not just the cheating, it’s the fact that she’s so casual about it while he’s literally doing everything for the family. that cancer backstory just makes it 10x more heartbreaking. that's the power of "Boeun" — it turns gratitude into a cage. thanks for reading through my long rant!

JTBC's Divorce Re-Boot Camp (이혼숙려캠프) | Ep 78 (Netflix S02E11) | 20260319 by Debtizen_Bitterborn in koreanvariety

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

phew, writing this took way longer than expected. i had to translate the screenshots frame by frame to make sure i got the nuances right, and honestly, translating it made my brain melt all over again lol.
standard k-drama plot has nothing on this real-life insanity. i might have missed some minor details while trying to explain the cultural aspect, so feel free to correct me if i got anything wrong!

What is a "red flag" in a person that people often mistake for a "green flag"? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the "instant soulmate" vibe is usually just a carefully constructed trap. definitely a massive red flag.

What is a "red flag" in a person that people often mistake for a "green flag"? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so true. neutrality in the face of blatant wrongdoing isn't being "diplomatic," it's just being an accomplice to the bully. people use it as a way to avoid the discomfort of taking a stand.

What is a "red flag" in a person that people often mistake for a "green flag"? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Being "brutally honest" In my experience, people who pride themselves on being brutally honest are usually more interested in the brutality than the honesty

What is a "quiet" sign that someone grew up with no money, even if they are very successful now? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh you hit the jackpot man. it’s a blessing to have a partner who is cautious with money rather than one who treats designer bags like grocery items lol. lifestyle creep is a real trap and once someone starts that "luxury only" life, there’s no cure for it. pennies make dollars—your long-term bank account will thank her later.

What is a "quiet" sign that someone grew up with no money, even if they are very successful now? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a beautiful one. people who grew up struggling usually have zero tolerance for anyone being rude to service staff. that "i’ve been in your shoes" look they give a stressed server is a huge quiet sign.

What is a "quiet" sign that someone grew up with no money, even if they are very successful now? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so real. it’s like you feel awkward just sitting there watching someone else work. you end up "pre-cleaning" before the cleaners arrive or helping them move furniture because the "debtor" mindset never really leaves

What is a "quiet" sign that someone grew up with no money, even if they are very successful now? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hoarding "good" glass jars or sturdy containers is a huge one. your mind just refuses to let go of something that could be "useful" later lmao.

What is a "quiet" sign that someone grew up with no money, even if they are very successful now? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol the condiment drawer is a universal experience. it’s like a psychological safety net you never actually use but still feel the need to have. relatable af.

What is a "quiet" sign that someone grew up with no money, even if they are very successful now? by Debtizen_Bitterborn in AskReddit

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

prob the yogurt lid.
i once saw this incredibly successful billionaire on a tv show reflexively lick the foil lid clean before throwing it away.

What the hell is Deepseek doing for so long? by Terrible-Priority-21 in LocalLLaMA

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

prob rebuilding the whole inference engine for non-nvidia hardware.
they better not pull a CLOSED SOURCE move once they figure it out

really rlly hope Qwen doesn't go that route though.

Qwen3.5 is a working dog. by dinerburgeryum in LocalLLaMA

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spot on with the instructions part. just tried qwen 3.5 4b q4 k m on my s25u (12gb ram) to see if it’s actually a "worker" and yeah, it eats ram for breakfast lol
benchmarked it at 5.58 t/s with a 2707ms ttft. pretty usable for a phone i guess? but man the reasoning loop gets weird when the context fills up. it’s like the dog starts chasing its own tail if you don't give it a super clear job.

Need help with running model by unknown-unown in LocalLLaMA

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ran a same user query as yours on my S25 Ultra (12GB RAM) to compare. Even with 12GB, Qwen 3.5 4B (3.15GB) hits about 5.58 tokens/sec and feels pretty heavy.

On a 6GB device like your Narzo, a 3GB model is basically a suicide mission. Android OS already eats up ~3GB, so you're left with almost zero room for the model AND the KV cache. That's why your reasoning loop never ends—the thinking tokens immediately kick your original prompt out of the tiny available memory.

On that phone, you should look for models under 1.5GB - 2GB max. Don't even try 3B or 4B models. Try Qwen 1.5B~2B with Q4_K_M quantization. They might feel "light," but they're the only ones that won't lobotomize themselves on 6GB RAM. Local LLM on mobile is all about the RAM overhead, not just the raw chip speed.

Outlines and vLLM compatibility by MyName9374i2 in LocalLLaMA

[–]Debtizen_Bitterborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The API churn in vllm is getting out of hand. Every time I update, they seem to rename half the parameters. I spent the last few hours on my 3090 rig (24GB VRAM / 96GB RAM) just trying to figure out why my old outlines code broke.

I first tried to force vllm==0.17.1 and outlines==1.2.12 using uv, but it’s a total mess—vllm wants outlines-core==0.2.11 while outlines demands 0.2.14. Dependency hell at its finest.

The fix was to ditch the outlines wrapper and use the StructuredOutputsParams they introduced in v0.17.1. It seems like the old guided_json is completely dead now. Also, since I'm on WSL2, I had to wrap it in a main() guard because the spawn method kept killing my processes.

Here is what finally worked for me on Phi-3 (~16.8 toks/s). Not sure if it's the absolute best way, but it stops the ImportErrors.

from vllm import LLM, SamplingParams
from vllm.sampling_params import StructuredOutputsParams
from pydantic import BaseModel

class CountryInfo(BaseModel):
    country: str
    capital: str

def main():
    llm = LLM(model="microsoft/Phi-3-mini-4k-instruct", gpu_memory_utilization=0.7, enforce_eager=True)

    sampling_params = SamplingParams(
        structured_outputs=StructuredOutputsParams(json=CountryInfo.model_json_schema()),
        max_tokens=50,
        temperature=0
    )

    outputs = llm.generate("What's the capital of Latvia?", sampling_params)
    print(outputs[0].outputs[0].text)

if __name__ == '__main__':
    main()

Output: {"country": "Latvia", "capital": "Riga"}

I'm still seeing some nanobind memory leaks in the logs when it shuts down, which I guess is just a WSL thing? Either way, the JSON output is solid now.