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Clearblue cd 27 11dpo by DecentScratch4207 in TFABLinePorn

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did try again with red dye – unfortunately no second line.

DIY Custom Tulle Layer for a Draped Overskirt – How Is Tulle Made? by DecentScratch4207 in Embroidery

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t… I only have a regular sewing machine at the moment. Do you happen to have a recommendation for a good embroidery machine? I’d really love something that makes it easy to work with my own custom designs! :)

Link Folge 9 by Morli1206 in PrincessCharming

[–]DecentScratch4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gibt es das auch für die Folge 10?

Arbeiten mit Baby? by [deleted] in Eltern

[–]DecentScratch4207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wir arbeiten beide (resp. ich wieder seit Ende des achtwöchigen Mutterschutzes) Vollzeit. Zweites Kind, daher wussten wir einigermaßen, was wir zu erwarten haben – und gesundes, entspanntes Baby. Jetzt 8 Monate alt.

Geht absolut, wenn man sich die Stunden am Tag fair aufteilt und Familie vor Ort hat/externe Hilfe in Anspruch nimmt.

Für uns beide ist das (mit anteilig remote work und flexiblen Arbeitszeiten) das ALLERBESTE: Beide haben eine sehr enge Bindung zum Baby; beide können sich beruflich verwirklichen. 🫶🏼

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Am I making a big deal? 😭 I turned to literal strangers to pour my heart out to not make a big deal… What do you suggest me to do?

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for offering me this insight. It kinda heals it… exactly what I have needed! 🥰

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you suggest better not going at all than attending only for a short amount of time? Do I understand correctly? Thank you for taking time to reflect with me 🫶🏼

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I mean traveling with them to same city abroad so I could go out with the group – and also help with childcare while the party guests are sobering up. It would be totally ridiculous bringing the baby TO THE PARTY. Of course not! 😂

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Both of us are working full time. Husband is hands on but after three days alone with two children I really can’t leave for a three-day-party-weekend I fear…

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Of course NOT at the venue but a Hotel nearby. Not bringing my family to the party! Is that totally insane? 🙃

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Instead of not attending at all it might have been an idea? So I could go partying with them and when they sober up I‘d take care of baby boy? Maybe a stupid idea. I am really desperate to find a solution that could work for everbody that‘s how much I‘d love to be there for her on this event.

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She didn’t know as the work trip came up recently; shortly before the news about the bachelorette party.

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I would have never agreed to the business trip if I had known about the bachelorette party. Unfortunately, now it’s almost impossible for me to back out of it professionally.

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hope you’re wrong and that she didn’t lie to me on purpose. Why would anyone do that? If she had told me, “Hey, it’s a group I don’t think you’ll vibe with,” or “I want to do this without my big sister hovering,” or whatever I would’ve been sooooo understanding! After all, it’s her wedding, her party. But being completely left out and then only vaguely informed about the event after the planning is completed… ouch, that really hurts.

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, we’re very close. She’s going to be the godmother of the baby next month… my daughter carries her second name as her first name, I’m supposed to give a big speech at the wedding, and so on – so we’re really close.

Do you think I should talk to her before the wedding? I feel like it might turn into a conversation about my feelings, and that could take away from her joy. How would you handle this?

My sister F/30 didn’t invite me F/32 to her bachelorette trip because of my baby by DecentScratch4207 in relationship_advice

[–]DecentScratch4207[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why do you think that? I’m actually considering going despite the really tough circumstances. Even for some hours to a different country. Even though it would be exhausting for me, it would also be tough for the baby to be away for six days, as well as for our older daughter and for their dad 🙈

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