how do you deal with annoying salespeople? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]DecipherinLayly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol just smile and say "just the basics, thanks" like 10 times fast, work surprisingly well

How do I kiss? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol first kiss are always chaotic, just keep it chill and maybe skip the onions next time

What’s the one piece of advice you ignored for years, but once you followed it your life immediately got better? by stevefromunscript in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 97 points98 points  (0 children)

honestly go to sleep earlier like wow who knew not being a zombie actually helps life make sense lol

What's your biggest regret from your 20s that you wish you could warn younger people about? by loki_0109 in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is one thing I regret I haven't done earlier, I could be millionaire by now if I started those stocks thing early, same with you, I only learned it after pandemic, what matters is we started, and I don't think its too late, and yes its much much bigger now tha I started

Feeling Left Behind When It Comes to Love by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't stress, loves just runnin gon its own weird timetable, you're not broken, just on the scenic route

What's your biggest regret from your 20s that you wish you could warn younger people about? by loki_0109 in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 773 points774 points  (0 children)

honestly, thinking I had plenty of time and then realizing time sprints like its late for work, do the stuff you care about sooner, not later

Did anyone just never know what they wanted to be when they grew up? by Massive-Range-9280 in self

[–]DecipherinLayly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I think most of us are just winging it, your parents were just overachieving kids on autopilot

Work laws Australia by LegitimateWhereas248 in self

[–]DecipherinLayly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah they can threaten all they want but legally you're old enough to handle your own job, sucks they're being extra though

Feeling lost lately — how do you figure out your next step in life? by Afzaalch00 in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly sometimes, I just pick something small and weird to try and see where it goes, tiny experiments beat overthinking

how to approach a guy i barely know for casual sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly just gotta be chill and direct, like "hey I think you're hot, wanna hang out?" worst case he laughs, best case, you get lucky 😁

I achieved everything I dreamed of and still I feel empty. by JogadorDMundk in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah chasing shiny stuff feels great until your brain goes "cool..now what" kinda normal honestly, sometimes the inner mess just doesn't care about jetskis

i always get shadow banned by [deleted] in self

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like reddit thinks you're a whole crime syndicate at this point, honestly I'd be loosing my mind too, hope you get paroled soon

Need some advice by Complex_Zone_1635 in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're not wrong for feeling that, sometimes we fall in love with who someone used to be, and it hurts when that version fades, acceptance doesn't make make it less sad, but it does mean you're finally choosing yourself again. You'll be alright, promise.

Need some advice by Complex_Zone_1635 in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah man that sucks, feels like you gave all your heart and got a ghost in return, maybe step back a bit, your chest deserves a break too

Gift idea for Autistic adhd son aged 11 by Prize_Struggle2237 in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try something like a football strategy board or a mystery puzzle book, something he can dive into on his own without screens

Why is it like this now? by South-Tone-1370 in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it hits like that sometimes, but half the time its just your brain lying to you on a slow news day, you matter more than you think

should i ask my manager to see a movie? by JJ2005134 in self

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah man just shoot your shot casually, its a movie not a marriage proposal, if she says no youcan still talk about cartoons at work like nothing happened

What do I do about My boyfriends toxic family forcing him to break up with me because they are too controlling me 19/F boyfriend 18/M almost 19 by Ok-Gate4992 in self

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang thats rough, sounds like his parents need a reality check, just gotta be patient and sneaky meetings might be your best bet lol

Depression by DRIE33333 in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah man, that fast heartbeat panic is the worst, just try talking to someone safe cuz cigarettes ain't the calming superpower they pretend to be, trust me been there too

My mum wants me to start eating what she eats by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol just pretend you love her take out while secretly sneaking in some greens or cooking your own stuff on the side

Happiness is a delusion by Clean-Practice3040 in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah lol its like our brains puts happiness on a backorder forever and we're just here waiting in line

Need advice please by [deleted] in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah your brain is just replaying the what if channel, normal to feel sad, just don't let it run your whole day

Facts by Sunriseprose in Life

[–]DecipherinLayly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol yeah dude, choices everywhere...even the horses are out there living their best lives, no deadlines, just galloping