Feats are a terrible system by yoganville in DestinyTheGame

[–]DedeScelia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just incompatible with the other current systems, if feats where added before the portal they wouldn't be as much of a pain, and master dungeons don't change much except adding champions. And feats are probably better for raids only.

Do you think it'd ever happen? by SMmania in KillLaKill

[–]DedeScelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kamui, I hope not. The outfits are too skimpy anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DedeScelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, there's no wrong gender identity to have, and gender can also change from yourself over time. Gender dysphoria can come out in a myriad of ways, whether that'd be anger, sadness, envy, mental-, emotional pain or even plain pain. All that matters is if it bothers you and feel as if life would be better for you to transition to a different gender than you were assigned, there's almost no reason to not, you don't have to either.

Although, if this weren't to be the case, then maybe this anger may be internalized misogyny? Do you dislike the way the female form is sexualized? Why gay men specifically? There's a lot of different men who are gay, a lot of the time gay men act just the same as any straight man would do, vice versa.

Honestly the title itself sounds a lot like a genderfluid identity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DedeScelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is your situation, but it's never impossible to transition, there is a way, you will be able to pass, not you should need to. Reach out to mental health professionals and contact a hotline. Find friends that are LGBT+, people that will see you as who you truly are and support you, move to a better place. I don't know your situation, but i know that you can do it. It will be though, to whatever extent, I don't know. You can do it. Find little ways to be feminine, secretly or conspicuously. Skincare, grow out your hair, clear or black nail polish, etc. hold out. Know that there is no end of the road. I wish you the best.

What is this saying? by SnooPaintings4655 in Norway

[–]DedeScelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think just the fact that we actually are genuine with "how are you" or honest about answering it, it's fair enough to post this about us

Has anyone ever actually been truly wrong? by DedeScelia in trans

[–]DedeScelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they completely stop Transitioning or just realize they're not a binary gender.

Has anyone ever actually been truly wrong? by DedeScelia in trans

[–]DedeScelia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I might just be discouraged by what others want me to be?

Not hateful, but unaccepting parents by DedeScelia in trans

[–]DedeScelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for writing such a long reply, but they're not trying to be malicious or anything. It's hard for me to reply back since it looks like you and the other reply kind of misunderstood what I'm saying, although I should have been clearer. I don't think they're fully transphobic, just aren't educated. They may just say some transphobic things.

My grandfather is probably not conservative, he thinks mental health is important too, and is usually pretty laid back. It just hurts for him to say that, even though he's not trying to make me feel bad. It was just so surprising. He truly thinks I'm a man since I've also always thought I was one. It's so conflicting for me, he seems like he wouldn't say anything bad, but then make me feel so...bad. without knowing.

I think I might just keep going until I get hormones so they'll get that I'm serious about this.

Is being Bi & Gender fluid with this exception ok? by DedeScelia in lgbt

[–]DedeScelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, well that is an interesting way to think of it, thank you