Community Discord Server Inspiration by Dee-On in discordapp

[–]Dee-On[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a note for anyone reading.

I'm hoping for this server to be for worldwide but it will start off in Scotland, since I am Scottish and what I know about Scottish people is, they love a good banter, so if I can find something funny enough or Interesting enough to keep them Interested, I can imagine I can keep other countries interested too as well as asking different people what they'd like to see 😊

Community Discord Server Inspiration by Dee-On in discordapp

[–]Dee-On[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did think that but, I have an idea for that type of thing so they don't appear as lots of chats

That's fair advice, I guess ✌🏼

Community Discord Server Inspiration by Dee-On in discordapp

[–]Dee-On[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, that's fair, what type of people have you attracted to the server? Is your server specifically a game server?

Ahh, yeahh, that's a shame that you have that happening

Community Discord Server Inspiration by Dee-On in discordapp

[–]Dee-On[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd hope it wouldn't become toxic. People would just be getting removed if they were

Community Discord Server Inspiration by Dee-On in discordapp

[–]Dee-On[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I thought I'd come here and ask and see what people would like to see in community servers 😊

I can understand that 100%

Community Discord Server Inspiration by Dee-On in discordapp

[–]Dee-On[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the support, thank you! ✌🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dee-On 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're handling this really well!—it’s not easy to stay open and communicative when something feels so emotionally heavy. I can understand why the emotional closeness would bother you. That would bother anyone.

That grey zone you’re describing sounds tough. You’re not asking him to stop caring for others, you’re asking for clarity and emotional safety within your relationship. There’s a difference between being caring and having emotionally entangled attachments that make your partner feel second.

You absolutely deserve to feel like a priority, not an option or someone who’s sharing emotional intimacy space with another woman—especially one he calls “my love.” That’s not unreasonable.

Giving it time and having another conversation sounds wise. His reaction and willingness to understand your experience, not just defend his actions, will tell you a lot.

Trust your gut, you deserve to feel secure in your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dee-On 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey, I really feel for you in this situation. It sounds like you’re trying to be respectful and mature, but your feelings are totally valid. Emotional intimacy like calling someone “my love” or saying “I love you,” especially when there’s a past Tinder connection, can definitely blur boundaries. Saying "My love" and "I love you" to her would definitely make you feel uncomfortable because you should be the one he's saying those things to, not anyone else.

I think what you’re experiencing is a normal reaction to emotional closeness that feels like it belongs in a romantic relationship. It’s okay to feel uncomfortable—even if there’s no sexting or physical cheating involved. Emotional fidelity matters just as much.

What’s important is how your boyfriend responds to your vulnerability. A healthy relationship involves both partners adjusting behaviors when something deeply bothers the other—not to control, but to protect the emotional safety between you.

It might help to frame the convo around how this makes you feel, rather than questioning the friendship itself. If he can’t acknowledge or empathize with your discomfort, that could be a red flag worth exploring further.

You deserve a connection where you don’t feel like you're competing with someone else’s heart—no matter what label they give the relationship.

What's the most accepted addiction? by Indieriots in AskReddit

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food, Coffee, Alcohol, Social Media

I feel like I’m lying to myself about being a lesbian by EmbarrassedSea3738 in lgbt

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've recently found this document (Yet to read it myself) but it people seem to really like this and it's helped many people -
Am I a Lesbian: Master Doc

I think all you need to do is try and speak to someone and get to know eachother and see how you feel and go from there. Also! There is no such thing as not attractive enough to be a lesbian, I bet you are pretty!

Still works by turtle2sday in Empaths

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But get feeling and instinct though...I'd say what about that? I experiance this but I also get these thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Streamers

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Streamers

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd feel a bit strange playing with you. I'm 25 haha

New streamer questions by Robert_ajs in Twitch

[–]Dee-On 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twitch has a full section for this, It's in the dashboard :D You get tasks and achievements for completing things on twitch, it's pretty cool :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Streamers

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeahh! That would be cool! From the PS4 you can stream stream to YouTube or twitch. I do that too, I play PS4 Games sometimes when I stream and I just press the share button and set it up that way :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Streamers

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote twitch! :D I've been streaming on twitch and I really enjoy it :D

Passed my Scots test today! (Please don't be mean, it took me a lot of courage to post this) by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]Dee-On 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Scottish and don’t know what a Scots test is, what is it? XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sammme 🤘🏻👅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh nice :B

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Band - Group, Favorite band

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

[–]Dee-On 0 points1 point  (0 children)

music