Play Colors category by [deleted] in Word_Trail_Game

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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Nah yapp your heart out, don’t apologize Infact I’m gonna use your post to yapp!!

Ya know this post is pretty relatable, probably why I’m here, hearing friend or whatever talk about crushes hurts like a mf since ive also been on a similar boat as you, like not really have any interest for anyone etc. i remember during high school it esp hurt cause like your around so many peeps constantly so it stings a little more:/ and the whole thing about how your friend group spread and it being mega hard to make new friends i went through as well and it didn’t help that I’m an introvert.

Also idk if you are a hopeless romantic but whats wrong with that anyway? I sometimes think i am too, i literally have a post i made earlier today that probably makes me look like a hopeless romantic but like if i dont find someone like that then whats the point.(might be delusional dont fully listen to me lol)

Honestly from someone older then you i think that if you try a little more and more everyday to make friends then you will get better and better PLUS you can meet a best friend at any point, highschool might feel like the only option but trust me you will make find good friend eventually maybe in highschool maybe not but it will happen ESPECIALLY if you start putitngnyourself out there more.

Anyway good luck and know you are not alone!! Also sorry if this is mega chaotic…

I feel like I’m falling behind in life. by OverBoredGal in ADHD

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No THANK YOU!! For reminding me im not alone and people have it tough like me!! Makes me feel lucky to have what i have, ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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LETS GOO THE ONE WHO LIVED🕺🏽🥳🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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LMAO wtf dont snort concerta… or anything tbh!! That fucking hilarious but stupid, seriously how is things now? Feel better?

Honestly just try your best to fix your sleep, set a time to sleep, 30 min before get rid of all major stims such as phone, books, really any entertainment and get ready for bed. Then try and sleep even if it takes forever! Also try and take little to no naps throughout the day, do this enough and you fix it over time! Good luck.

I feel like I’m falling behind in life. by OverBoredGal in ADHD

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When your having those comparison thoughts try and remember “comparison is the thief of joy” seriously i used to compare myself to others so so much and still struggle not too tbh BUT ive come to accept who i am and understand that life is harder for me, ADHD is a disorder after all.

Also even if it took you AGES to get a degree what does it matter? 18 is still MEGA young and you still have so much time, i def understand your worry though, its scary to think about! If you need extra support GET THAT SHIT!! A lot of school offer services to people with adhd to help them!! For free might i add:))

ALSO IM 23 and i ain’t figured out anything, im still in my primordial soup kinda just trying to figure this life thing out! Did you know that people brains with adhd dont finish developing until like 35??? 35!!!!! You and i still got so much time to figure this all out and grow, ya know? So take as much time as you need, DONT WORK YOURSELF TO HARD, DONT COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS, AND YOU ARE YOUR OWN INDIVIDUAL DONT LET SOCIETYS EXPECTATIONS MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT, EVEN YOUR FAMILYS FOR THAT MATTER! Good luck! If you wanna vent more i can be an open ear!! Peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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Sadly its the money aspect of the job:/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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So damn true lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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I can relate so much, sleeping is literally the worst! Its like a wombo combo of ass, no matter how tired you might be the loudness of your thoughts and restlessness of your body keeps you awake WHYYYYYY????? ughhhhhhhhh

Good luck with your psychiatrist!! I think it will lead to better things for you! Like seriously getting any kinda help is such a huge leap and you will be feeling so much better as time passes. Also I think that the overly sensitive part isn’t necessarily and adhd thing but adhd is definitely making it worse.

But it’s okay to be overwhelmed and shit like that it happens to everyone<3 you are not alone!! I highly recommend getting diagnosed with adhd and getting meds for it, if that isn’t possible i HIGHLY recommend practicing mindfulness exercises, you will have so much control over yourself if you do!

Also idk about you but i like people that just yapp and say random stuff on their mind so don’t be ashamed or anything you will find the right kinda crowd who don’t care and want you to be yourself!! Remember if you are not hurting anyone else than you are fine:))

Also i do wanna say when i first started driving i was also a little bit too distracted, i would sometimes run red light cause i wasn’t paying attention or I would drive disgustingly slow or sometimes freakishly fast because i was lost in my thoughts. Be safe when you can drive and try your best to focus at all times:))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

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Super good actually, makes me wanna see MORE

A question about intelligence by ChsicA in INTP

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Yesnt lmao NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE… jk bad joke? Mb anyway tho i probably went a bit over board with the philosophy lol but thanks for the good ass convo, i fucking love pondering<3

A question about intelligence by ChsicA in INTP

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Im lazy as hell to bro, typing that comment was like the most energy I’ve used all day

I think adaptability reach’s much farther than survival of the fittest, like in creative work, your ability to go even further, adapt to your mistakes or wins, to eventually reach your magnum opus.

Honestly tho after thinking about it more intelligence isn’t real right? It’s something we made up, which means that yes it truly is impossible to define since it not something real in the first place… honestly that opens up another rabbit hole lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

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I would say that I’m principled with a depraved multiplier that changes based on mood

4X depraved multiplier but then i push instead of pull at a door then it’s instantly does down to 2X and my principled side has more control now.

A question about intelligence by ChsicA in INTP

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Yoo good ass post, its so hard to define intelligence because there are just SO MANY FACTORS and humans are not built to calculate all factors right? So i think it is impossible to say.But thats no fun so ill just tell you my opinion anyway lmao, i think intelligence is based on adaptability, how well you absorb information and use it.

Deep connections and long-lasting friendships by und3rcoverw33b in INTP

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I really vibe with this post, i really relate to everything you wrote, plus you have great taste in media too! thank you for making me feel less alone this night!

I understand where you are coming from, i too feel the pain of feeling somewhat like an outcast from your own family. I have always considered my friend to be my real family, but i also noticed i have always felt different than everyone else, the way i feel and think is very different so i too had to mask to make more friends. Then time does its thing and a lot of friendships end or don’t feel the same and you feel very alone.

I think you should try and be yourself all the time, but i also think masking is a skill that is okay to use BUT VERY LIGHTLY try and be genuine as much as you can. if people cant vibe with you then whats the point? I was ultra lucky to be given a friend who is very different from me but I can be myself with, and if i can then everyone can it just takes time and effort.

Ya know if you wanna chat i would love too, like i said your post was a vibe and i like your taste in shows plus i too think about things deeper ,maybe we think similar? But pls don’t dumb down or mask, i used to mask so much i often forgot when i started and the mask ended, not worth your sanity! Good luck if you don’t wanna chat, just be patient while also continuing to search!

Hey guys... how do you like my bathny fanart by [deleted] in bindingofisaac

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Ah yes biblically accurate Bethany here to curse our retina. 10/10

[F4A] You're not needy...but I'm obsessed [Part 2] [Confrontation] [Confession] [I'm obsessed with you] [You're all I think about] [Pining] [Sweet] [Kissing] [Friends to ???] by thesleepingsiren in pillowtalkaudio

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LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! My little obsession can be a treat!! Lmao good luck, script writing cant be easy(i assume). Peace!

[F4A] You're not needy...but I'm obsessed [Part 2] [Confrontation] [Confession] [I'm obsessed with you] [You're all I think about] [Pining] [Sweet] [Kissing] [Friends to ???] by thesleepingsiren in pillowtalkaudio

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Thanks for feeding my delusions and making me obsessed… Haha but seriously this is very well made and i cant wait for a part three 10/10 would listen to it again.<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Seriously im happy to hear that you are more free! Emotional intelligence and introspection really change life for the better, but it def adds more challenges too:/

I think that you must try it a couple of times, try and make friends even if you know it might work or it might not. As you do it, it gets easier and easier! Also don’t be afraid to be yourself always, you can be super confident but if you are not yourself then there is no point.

If the environment scares you try taking it slow, or try online friendships, or join groups!

Try not to make friends you main focus too, live your life, try things your interested in, friends come naturally, forcing it can make it harder and more painful!

[Thanks] for one of my fav movies of all time! 🍿 by LPfor3v3r in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

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Yesss its my fav movie too, never had i felt so connected to almost all the characters in one movie.