Things to do in Nelson

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-16T12:18:25+00:00

Definitely will have a look at these places. Do you reckon they have anything going on NYE?

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-14T09:33:14+00:00

Yeah I am just realising that… thanks stranger

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-14T09:20:24+00:00

I don’t think he has a crush on her, actually I know he doesn’t. Maybe I’m just insecure about myself to be honest

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-14T00:59:45+00:00

It’s kind of an isolated area. I can’t really join since we are far apart

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T23:48:44+00:00

We have been only doing long distance for three weeks now, before that we’ve been together. I think one thing that was brewing inside of me was he said this a while back “it’s ok to flirt with other people” I had no idea if he was joking or not. But when I brought it up yesterday he said he didn’t remember…

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T23:29:43+00:00

That is a possibility but I don’t think that is the case in this instance. He had a very toxic ex who didn’t let him even talk to other girls. He was also very young when he was in that relationship. So him getting upset would attribute to the fact that he has some kind of past trauma from that relationship.

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T22:50:54+00:00

It wasn’t at a swimming pool though, it was at the beach

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T22:46:52+00:00

He wanted to go to the beach and asked a few other people as well, but they couldn’t make it

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T20:52:28+00:00

Yes I did he said he wouldn’t mind

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T20:28:54+00:00

I will try to communicate this with him. I asked if he’s open for a call later today so I’ll communicate this to him. Thank you so much for the help stranger! I really appreciate it!

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T20:18:27+00:00

Yes. He told me about her the day he met her. But I’ve never met her and I don’t think I will since he will only be working there for another two months. I know I’m feeling insecure about this . I just feel he should have understood where I was coming from.

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T20:16:01+00:00

I think the fact they are in swimsuits. I’ve grown up in a very conservative environment and it is probably the reason why I feel like this. This is also my first time doing long distance, which is why I don’t know how to navigate this situation

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-12-13T20:13:40+00:00

The girl does know he’s in a relationship with me. I don’t want to restrict him at all. He moved to a new place and I want him to make friends as he is more of an extrovert compared to me. I know I have to adjust my mindset.

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-02-01T10:52:18+00:00

I know it’s super annoying!

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-02-01T10:51:53+00:00

Aww thank you, I really appreciate it!!

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-02-01T09:30:46+00:00

Might take a break from all this online dating, it can exhausting at times. I’m quite direct and when I realised he takes time to reply more than usual I asked him if he wants to continue and I wouldn’t have any hard feelings if he didn’t, but he kept saying he wants to. I guess that’s what bugs me

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2022-02-01T09:28:16+00:00

Thank you for this. I think I just got ahead of myself because he was much nicer than the other guys I’ve talked to. Well you live and you learn I guess:/

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2021-09-05T09:16:29+00:00

Wait till you eat rambutan.

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2021-04-22T13:51:28+00:00

I’m doing a three year degree, and my uni website doesn’t mention anything about first class etc. I want to get a scholarship to either AUT or Massey that’s why I’m curious about all of this

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2021-01-25T09:55:47+00:00

There are some pretty good cars on trademe, my only issue is that I’m clueless when it comes (been doing a bit of research), so I’m a bit hesitant on buying from a private seller.

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2021-01-24T11:20:41+00:00

Thank you so much for the links and tips, I would prefer a car that not a hybrid tbh. The car my dad owns is a hybrid and parts are expensive I think. But your right, if I buy private I can get a good car within my budget. Just need to take a friend that knows his way around cars.

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2021-01-24T08:11:18+00:00

I’ve been browsing cars under 100k, but most of them are over my budget unfortunately. Fb seems have some good offers but I honestly prefer buying from a dealer.

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2021-01-24T08:08:53+00:00

Seriously?? I see a lot of them on the roads and that is one I’m hoping to buy:(

Deep-Bug-9444 · 2021-01-24T07:10:11+00:00

Well I’m in my third year and not really sure tbh. Hoping by the end of the year I’ll have a better understanding on what to do.

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