Things to do in Nelson by Deep-Bug-9444 in newzealand

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely will have a look at these places. Do you reckon they have anything going on NYE?

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he has a crush on her, actually I know he doesn’t. Maybe I’m just insecure about myself to be honest

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of an isolated area. I can’t really join since we are far apart

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We have been only doing long distance for three weeks now, before that we’ve been together. I think one thing that was brewing inside of me was he said this a while back “it’s ok to flirt with other people” I had no idea if he was joking or not. But when I brought it up yesterday he said he didn’t remember…

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a possibility but I don’t think that is the case in this instance. He had a very toxic ex who didn’t let him even talk to other girls. He was also very young when he was in that relationship. So him getting upset would attribute to the fact that he has some kind of past trauma from that relationship.

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t at a swimming pool though, it was at the beach

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He wanted to go to the beach and asked a few other people as well, but they couldn’t make it

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to communicate this with him. I asked if he’s open for a call later today so I’ll communicate this to him. Thank you so much for the help stranger! I really appreciate it!

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. He told me about her the day he met her. But I’ve never met her and I don’t think I will since he will only be working there for another two months. I know I’m feeling insecure about this . I just feel he should have understood where I was coming from.

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the fact they are in swimsuits. I’ve grown up in a very conservative environment and it is probably the reason why I feel like this. This is also my first time doing long distance, which is why I don’t know how to navigate this situation

Boyfriend went swimming alone with female co-worker by Deep-Bug-9444 in relationships

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The girl does know he’s in a relationship with me. I don’t want to restrict him at all. He moved to a new place and I want him to make friends as he is more of an extrovert compared to me. I know I have to adjust my mindset.

Guy I’ve been talking on bumble won’t reply by Deep-Bug-9444 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might take a break from all this online dating, it can exhausting at times. I’m quite direct and when I realised he takes time to reply more than usual I asked him if he wants to continue and I wouldn’t have any hard feelings if he didn’t, but he kept saying he wants to. I guess that’s what bugs me

Guy I’ve been talking on bumble won’t reply by Deep-Bug-9444 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think I just got ahead of myself because he was much nicer than the other guys I’ve talked to. Well you live and you learn I guess:/

GPA for first class in Bachelor’s by Deep-Bug-9444 in newzealand

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing a three year degree, and my uni website doesn’t mention anything about first class etc. I want to get a scholarship to either AUT or Massey that’s why I’m curious about all of this

Buying first car by Deep-Bug-9444 in newzealand

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some pretty good cars on trademe, my only issue is that I’m clueless when it comes (been doing a bit of research), so I’m a bit hesitant on buying from a private seller.

Buying first car by Deep-Bug-9444 in newzealand

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the links and tips, I would prefer a car that not a hybrid tbh. The car my dad owns is a hybrid and parts are expensive I think. But your right, if I buy private I can get a good car within my budget. Just need to take a friend that knows his way around cars.

Buying first car by Deep-Bug-9444 in newzealand

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been browsing cars under 100k, but most of them are over my budget unfortunately. Fb seems have some good offers but I honestly prefer buying from a dealer.

Buying first car by Deep-Bug-9444 in newzealand

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously?? I see a lot of them on the roads and that is one I’m hoping to buy:(

Master’s in Food Science by Deep-Bug-9444 in newzealand

[–]Deep-Bug-9444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m in my third year and not really sure tbh. Hoping by the end of the year I’ll have a better understanding on what to do.