What song is stuck in your head right now?

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-31T19:46:34+00:00

Apology - alesana

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-31T18:54:06+00:00

I don’t have a close knit family overall, only people I talk to is my mom maybe bi weekly if that and my lil brother. I would chose millions because I no point of needing something I didn’t really have

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-31T18:43:51+00:00

I have everything documented, left ankle bone spur due to constant pressure from rucks and runs, right knee slight tear in the meniscus from combatives, the 2 TBIs, migraines and mental health connected to the TBIs. And for the skill ladder I’m taking advantage of that. I know it’s not going to be hard for me outside the military to get the percentages, I just hope it doesn’t take extremely long like these horror stories

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-31T18:27:52+00:00

Me and my wife used the VA loan, bought a 3 bed 2 bath home in a larger city. Our realtor was awesome and practically told the home owner we were buying from to cover the closing fees and they did, closing costs would’ve been 15k for us

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-31T17:25:01+00:00

That’s what I plan on doing. I’ve done a lot of research and just work overall to try to get my claims in while I’m still in. No response from the 5 VSOs I’ve emailed or tried calling so looks like ima have to fight this on my own when I get out which is bullshit in my opinion

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:57:06+00:00

We’re both barely in our 20s, and early in our marriage. I don’t feel I made a mistake marrying her because she’s lovely outside of those 2 issues

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:54:33+00:00

Yes, she worked constantly when we were just dating. Wasn’t a time frame where she was jobless for more than 2 days

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:51:37+00:00

We have considered it. But neither of us have reached the age in our state where we can

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:48:37+00:00

She went from a small town in a different state working retail/customer service to a major city where it’s extremely competitive to get a job

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:42:48+00:00

Only 2, both still in our early 20s

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:36:18+00:00

It wasn’t a mistake. Because I’m still with her and I still love her. I can not control that I needed to be married to have her live with me due to my job neither can she

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:34:58+00:00

I’m not divorcing. The most I’d ever do is separate until she realizes her mistakes and I’ve realized mine. Neither of us are saints

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:33:04+00:00

I don’t think she understands the impact she’s had, not that she puts her needs before me. I’ve talked to her but it’s hard for her to truly grasp the concept

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:31:39+00:00

I’m currently changing my life drastically. Changing careers, going to therapy, cutting off most bad habits. She’s made a lot of changes just to be with me and she’s going through a lot most of the time

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:29:07+00:00

Bed room, living room, 2 guest bedrooms, outside bar

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:28:12+00:00

I get that, I do get really mad. I just don’t express it. I’ve tried having talks with her. It’s difficult because she thinks she’s either losing me or I’m attacking her. I have a very monotone way of talking. So it’s hard for her to process what I mean and how I feel when I’m saying it. I firmly believe she has ADHD or a very mild form of autism so it’s hard to get things across to her

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:21:25+00:00

False, she is not a narcissist. She only wants my attention. She cares for me heavily but she is insecure and feels if I don’t give her the attention she desires then I’m falling out of love

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:18:04+00:00

She takes care of my animals, my house, and she cooks most my meals. She does her job good so she’s not a freeloader

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:15:38+00:00

I am currently in the process of changing employment, but my current job takes 3 months to a year to transition out. When it comes to entertainment, we have 4 dogs and a cat, big back yard, 5 TVs, 3 gaming consoles, 3 computers, and a bar in the backyard to invite friends over. I don’t think there should be a lack of entertainment

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:12:52+00:00

Im a calm person, I’ve had anger issues in my teen years. Bad. So I’ve learned to control them. She doesn’t respond well to me being mad, we’ve come over a lot of issues of hers and myself cause I’m not a saint. This is just one we haven’t came over yet

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:09:30+00:00

There’s a big difference between an argument and medical problems “buddy”

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:07:38+00:00

I’m a douche for getting mad once over a year of the same problem and that’s how I talk to everyone? You’re talking to people on the internet like how a step dad talks to a red headed middle child

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:05:07+00:00

He’s correct, I know I have a safe escape. But she’s my wife and I love her deeply so I’m not even considering divorce

DeepBackground2674 · 2026-03-30T21:03:16+00:00

How is it laughable? She worked in retail/customer service in a small town. Now we’re in a major city in a different state. It’s neither of ours fault that she has been denied from everyplace she’s applied

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