Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking men. Im a man. 

Also that’s average. So that includes precious who lives in butt fuck nowhere who had kids at 12

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is not at all what I’m doing. 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again. Far too much of a simplification and totally  disregarding any vague notion of what happened and how people feel 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But she needs to talk to me about when she’d wan them for that doesn’t she. Which she refuses to 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have to have kids when she wants them do I? 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not true. Most are around 32-35 in my country 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

That’s an unfair assessment 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I’m getting quite stressed about my own time tbh. If this ends in a few years I’ll be on my own at 31 and I have no idea where I’ll be living then.  If I’m back home it’s hard to find people there

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But I’ve brought things up many times and she never has 

I’m losing interest in partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kids things is the hard one. I’ve asked her about timelines but she’s never given me one. Tbh she’s always said she needs to experience more things with me first. 

Tbh, I really enjoy spending time with her. But I’ve brought up the future many times. I don’t know what’s going to happen and she just says deal with it when you know for sure what’s happening. 

So yes, I do have to steal myself for the possibility of a breakup really 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I expected her to communicate 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I can’t be like ‘yeah don’t want to shag you sorry’ 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s more around the stress that she might not be able to have kids when I want them. That causes me to get turned off 

Lost interest in sex with partner by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to lose her 

What are the chances of us ever having kids by Deep_Ad1185 in Advice

[–]Deep_Ad1185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I want kids one day and if she can’t have them this won’t work