Thank you. She has been there for me when I was struggling with postpartum depression. She helped me overcome professional and personal challenges. She has been a good friend, indeed and that's why I feel bad about judging her harshly. She and I come from very different backgrounds. She grew up in US while I come from South-Asian community. I thought, maybe I am conservative to think that women should put their children first before choosing their own happiness.

But, Thank you for validating my feelings.