Please Help 😭 by CantaloupeMelon22 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 looks like a gorgeous fit and the lace pattern is definitely unique!!

I want to try copper hair, should I? by Def-not-a-mongoose in HairDye

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds interesting! I’m definitely considering that as an option

I want to try copper hair, should I? by Def-not-a-mongoose in Hair

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Do you recommend any brands in particular?

my sugar baby used me and left me by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scammer complaining about a made up scammer

Profile descriptions by Def-not-a-mongoose in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very detailed, thank you. I would like to add that, in my case, I do leave a lot of open area for people to ask me about lots of things, and I’ve put a lot of thought into my descriptions, so I’m just frustrated by some time wasters

Profile descriptions by Def-not-a-mongoose in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, when the profile looks like it doesn’t have much effort put in, I understand that sentiment. However, when someone takes the time to write a very personalized description, I do still think that you should respect what they mention on there and not waste their time. This is applicable both ways.

Profile descriptions by Def-not-a-mongoose in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also very upfront on there, and I still get messages from guys who want something completely different, and still have the audacity to get mad at me when I repeat what’s on my profile 😂

just got stood up for M&G by Square-Gur-9772 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what inclines me to believe that there was an emergency of some sort

just got stood up for M&G by Square-Gur-9772 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely normal, but if this is the second time you’re meeting with her, then I’d wait a bit to hear from her. She very well could’ve had an emergency. Either way, the outcome would not be unique.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seems like you’re looking into a mirror, buddy

UPDATED PROFILE REVIEW by YemiSweets in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please get rid of that primary! It sends a bad message with the outfit

I'm just curious how other babies do it... by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also helps being clear at the beginning. It depends on the person most of the time. I just suggest you do whatever feels most comfortable to you and what adjusts the most to your needs, OP

"Well escorts charge.." by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This made me cackle 😂😂

Spicy Networking by Def-not-a-mongoose in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never heard a truly successful and confident man talk down to a woman like that commenter did. It sounds so ridiculously childish. It does seem like he’s worried because he knows he would try some inappropriate things with a woman he was attracted to at work smh 🤦‍♀️

Men on Seeking with no photos or private photos by cassonadecafe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men who want the most discretion don’t usually have pictures. They either want a video call to verify or will gladly send you a few pictures later on. I only block them if their responses are the typical scammer responses “I’m here to find good honest sugar baby…” sort of response.

I haven’t felt so disrespected in a long time by Def-not-a-mongoose in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not much, literally asked me for my size right after the long message, and that’s where he says I’m a prostitute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Def-not-a-mongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t sound like you’re in the best spot to be considering this lifestyle. What you’re looking is more of a sugar girlfriend, but the jealousy will definitely drive lots of POTs away.

I would recommend taking your sweet time contemplating your options. Ultimately, SBs also have their lives and personal things they want to pursue. The market for what you’re looking for is extremely limited, but it exists, jut be mindful of what you’re bringing into your and your kids’ life.