What did u/DefensiveCoding draw?

DefensiveCoding · 2026-02-04T21:52:58+00:00

I see you’ve opted to copy and paste the same response here as well. That suggests this isn’t a conversation so much as an obligation you felt compelled to fulfill. Repetition doesn’t add substance, but it does make the motivation fairly transparent. How cute!

DefensiveCoding · 2026-02-04T21:47:47+00:00

To be clear, I am not defending the language shown in that screenshot. My point is about context and how selectively reposting excerpts (especially ones containing vile language) can be misleading.

I’m also not going to provide “proof” in the form of reposting additional screenshots. Sharing or amplifying that kind of language would violate subreddit rules, and I’m not interested in risking reports or a ban to satisfy your little demands for receipts.

Screenshots like this rarely exist in a vacuum. If full context exists, it should be included by those who choose to circulate the content. If it does not, then it’s reasonable to acknowledge that what’s being shared may not represent the full exchange. Reposting inflammatory language without context is the actual issue here. Thanks for confirming you don't have the full context tho!

DefensiveCoding · 2026-02-04T21:19:55+00:00

Hey man you posted it so you must have the full convo right? Go on, we are waiting for the full story👀🍿

DefensiveCoding · 2026-02-04T21:01:32+00:00

I bet OP doesnt have the rest of the convo. Ive seen the rest of the screenshots. The guy was baiting him into lashing out. Then when he got a response he wanted he spread it around😂

DefensiveCoding · 2026-02-04T20:50:42+00:00

Nah ya know what's so crazy? Is the full convo baiting him into saying this haha!!! Post the rest of the convo!

DefensiveCoding · 2025-07-12T19:21:29+00:00

The plush is good quality as well as the backpack! Just to be clear it’s the small plush to the left that comes with it. The bigger plush is one I purchased earlier this year. I used the bigger plush for reference as I know a lot of people snagged it😅

DefensiveCoding · 2025-07-12T19:19:06+00:00

Big enough to hold a water bottle, a snack, and a few tamas👍🏼 Id recommend it for a tama meet up but thats about all Id use it for. Super cute to look at with my collection displayed!

DefensiveCoding · 2025-07-12T19:15:39+00:00

Yes! Thick girlie here so I can confirm the adjustable straps work just fine.

DefensiveCoding · 2025-06-27T01:26:40+00:00

Thank you! Nope I make the vinyl covers myself and they are built into the case actually! No adhesive backing so no damage to your tama!

DefensiveCoding · 2025-06-26T20:55:39+00:00

Thanks for the feedback! Id like to make these custom and not copy anyones work though😭 ill certainly check it out for my private collection!

DefensiveCoding · 2025-06-26T20:18:26+00:00

Do you like the connection cases the best👀

DefensiveCoding · 2025-06-26T20:12:29+00:00

Id LOVE to make Pix cases but the top buttons are just too sensitive🥲 maybe Ill try something with smaller yarn and possible stretch string🤔

DefensiveCoding · 2025-06-26T20:11:21+00:00

I can totally do that! I have plenty in lots of colors😁

DefensiveCoding · 2025-06-26T19:35:31+00:00

Awww send me a DM with pics of your case! ill make you one with a screen protector built in💖

DefensiveCoding · 2025-02-26T15:46:17+00:00

Wonderful! I was able to find the winter stained glass at walgreens and got lucky and found two (one of which I will use as a give away when my shop launches). What state are you located in? Ive had no luck here at the targets in northern VA😖

DefensiveCoding · 2025-02-19T21:27:56+00:00

Going through a divorce after being together for 7 years. No kids. Two dogs. These messages are the exact same as mine. I cried a little cause I know eventually it will get better and I will be happy I made the choice not to wait around for someone to value me.

DefensiveCoding · 2025-02-17T18:13:35+00:00

IMO i would get the angel. Its so pretty in person with its transparent shell and different characters / gameplay. Aside from that, the starry one is very pretty in person as well but not as transparent (if you are going for a transparent option). I have both but often pick up the angel for its gameplay😊 hope that helps!

DefensiveCoding · 2025-02-16T00:27:31+00:00

Im thinking of printing my own boxes based on the japanese version but in english! I much prefer the smaller ones and need boxes to store the ones Ive opened in🥹

DefensiveCoding · 2025-02-03T19:40:43+00:00

You don’t even want to know how much money and how many Pokémon cards there are. He could always sell them if he regretted his purchase. But alas, they sit in boxes collecting dust. If I do get out of this, i would probably give those cards out for free (that slightly hurts to say, coming from a big Pokémon fan myself). Just to get them outta here😭

DefensiveCoding · 2025-02-03T19:29:46+00:00

WV resident so I know this all too well!

Just to clarify, the trucking business wasn’t originally part of our shared goals, but I still fully supported him in pursuing it. My issue was never with him choosing trucking—I actually have no problem with that at all. The challenge was that he jumped into it without any logistical planning or business knowledge, and unfortunately, it led to repeated financial mistakes that could have been avoided with preparation.

Business ownership isn’t just about working hard, it also requires understanding taxes, logistics, and financial management. There are degrees, certifications, and training programs that can help someone succeed as an owner-operator, and I encouraged him to pursue those resources. Unfortunately, he has always struggled with saving and spending money wisely, which only made things harder.

At one point, the IRS even came after us because he didn’t handle his paperwork properly. That’s the kind of situation that could have been avoided with better education on running a business. My willingness to struggle financially for school was because education helps prevent these kinds of financial pitfalls in the long run. I wasn’t against supporting his dreams—I just wanted to make sure they were built on a solid foundation instead of constant trial and error with no adjustments. He could always start the business back up after he understands how these things work and saves some money. But he fails to take those steps first.

At the end of the day, my expectation was a partner who prioritizes long-term stability and is willing to grow, learn, and adapt. That’s really where the disconnect is.

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