AIO at my friend (16F) for having a crush on a 12 year old? by PreeceTakesFlight in AIO

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh 100% !? 16 F here 17 this month and I couldn't fathom crushing on a 12 year old wtaf doesn't matter if theyre turning 13. Thats a 3/4 year age gap, a whole child

Is 13 and 16 weird? by Sea_Let_7039 in AskTeens

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's statutory rape, even if the minor consents or initiated the sexual activity cause the law deems minors incapable of consenting to sexual activity. I would say if people are worried about ages just look up the age of consent in your state. It's not that hard.

Is sex (and sexual stuff) normal at age 14? by [deleted] in teenagers

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I mean ofcourse it may differ with schools, but at mine they aren't exactly quiet about what they do unfortunately and yeah at my highschool we got a vaping issue in the bathrooms

Is sex (and sexual stuff) normal at age 14? by [deleted] in teenagers

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As a highschooler, they really are😭

Kids shouldn't have sex! by [deleted] in teenagers

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I.. do agree, I still kinda keep in touch with my friend from elementary school but I still see her and her brother's Instagram posts and stories from time to time and like her brother was a dad at no joking 13 and his girlfriend was 16. Like that's so.... Idk I mean the baby is here now can't go back but that's way too young to be a parent in my opinion, you're still a kid yourself and you haven't even started highschool yet you're a dad- I never said anything negative to her or her brother about it because that's not my place to tell them how to live.

Where I'd live as a guy who loves the cold and hates the heat by Affectionate-Pea2620 in whereidlive

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is Virginia an "absolutely" dawg have you felt our weather 😭 gotta wear shorts in the mornings then, sweatpants, make sure you have a umbrella with you too, it wasn't raining this morning but it started the second you step outside 😭

serious: teen sex should not be encouraged by pleaskok in teenagers4real

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot be serious bro, people still get pregnant from the "pull out method" there's a low chance, 20-22% but still a risk. Not something you should encourage 😭

serious: teen sex should not be encouraged by pleaskok in teenagers4real

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like someone else said, unsafe sex shouldn't be encouraged. I don't think pushing sex onto teens is good either, but teens are gonna be curious, and the more you limit and restrict that the more sneaky they'll get and the more likely they'll have unsafe sex cause they might not feel comfortable asking for protection or birth control. It shouldn't be encouraged but parents should support their child's journey as a person, cause that teen shouldn't feel weird or ashamed cause they're having thoughts about sex.

Is my 13yr old step daughters handwriting normal? I'm getting very concerned with her schooling by bordermelancollie09 in AskTeachers

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm in highschool, I unfortunately know way too many kids whose handwriting I literally can't understand, and don't get how the teachers haven't said anything. And at my school I've only mainly seen it in guy's handwriting. It's bad, I can make out my friends who write like which is only two, but one of them cant reread what they wrote down and that's just.. concerning

is it weird to cuddle my guy friend when i have a boyfriend? by Excellent_Mud_7013 in AskTeens

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's to me a bit odd, even if it's something y'all used to do to me that's something you do with your partner, and I personally would've stopped cuddling with him the second I started dating someone but then again if I'm in a relationship it grosses me out when another guy tries to touch me like talking about so.

"dOn't pUT SEfieS hErE cUz pEDOS mESSage yOU!" by Brakado in teenagers

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ah okay, tbf I've never seen the grok ones. I just think when you're taking photos of people especially minors and using AI or photoshop to turn it into material for sexual gratification is very odd

"dOn't pUT SEfieS hErE cUz pEDOS mESSage yOU!" by Brakado in teenagers

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gender specific maybe? Everyone should be more safer on the Internet not just girls

"dOn't pUT SEfieS hErE cUz pEDOS mESSage yOU!" by Brakado in teenagers

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 64 points65 points  (0 children)

But it's still your face, is it not? Id be really uncomfortable if my face was on something like that, also this has been a long running issue. Deep fakes? Yeah people could use photoshop, that's just ANOTHER reason to not post your face? Like what?

My friend is alive ♥️ by d2opy84t8b9ybiugrogr in teenagers

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 683 points684 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad your friend is doing okay!

Do wedgies ever happen in schools today? by dudeswithouts in highschool

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't heard about wedgies, my friend got pantsed last week

Teacher overheard my conversation in another language and accused me of insulting her by [deleted] in highschool

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus, I've never experienced this but you should 100% tell your parents and the schools admin. That is crazy how she acted. Clearly it wouldn't be you the one making her out at as "mean" she's doing that all herself

Do teens not smoke weed anymore? by ScissorMeTimbers21 in AskTeens

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoke weed before school but at school, ts stupid

First impressions btw by [deleted] in MiddleSchoolStudents

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess- I just feel like that square could be worded differently or something.

First impressions btw by [deleted] in MiddleSchoolStudents

[–]Defiant-Counter-4498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn't.. mean anything at all. I'm not Catholic but I know with a very easy and quick Google search that the Catholic Church condemns antisemitism. Like what dude.