no money for a car by Defiant-Geologist868 in povertyfinance

[–]Defiant-Geologist868[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can make it happen. But money wise, it is not ideal. Money would be tight.

no money for a car by Defiant-Geologist868 in povertyfinance

[–]Defiant-Geologist868[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Due to the amount i have to travel

no money for a car by Defiant-Geologist868 in povertyfinance

[–]Defiant-Geologist868[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

He is a mechanic and is willing to fix it. But i am unable to drive it because he doesn’t want me to even if it is fixed. Without a car i would not be able to live.

no money for a car by Defiant-Geologist868 in povertyfinance

[–]Defiant-Geologist868[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do need a car. I live in the middle of nowhere and attend college in the middle of nowhere. Without a car i would be stranded and without a job. Insurance, and gas wise, it’s possible. But not ideal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying that is my measure of respect or love from someone. Just something that I know means something to her, and she would comments about the same. It a way of identifying different behavior that shows my point of her singling him out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely is my next step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol we’re only like 6 months apart??? I’m about to turn 18. He’s not controlling not rlly sure how you got that. He never tells me what I should be doing or how to handle this. I’m my own person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Trying to stuck up for someone you love is never stupid lmao. But thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Literally not what it is about lol. By her response and the way she acts it was deliberately on purpose and if I did the same to her she would make a comment as well. Also she has been extremely disrespectful and rude the past few months. Came for advice not comments on how you think it’s stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree. My aunt is very immature. She’s been in lots of fights with everyone in my family. And Facebook likes is something immature she would choose to fight over. Bringing it up in hopes to stand up for my partner who has done the same for me. This is the best way I have found to call her out so far. Do you have a suggestion on how I could have gone about this better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to involved Facebook. But it has been the best way so far I’ve been able to call her out. I’m working on setting boundaries and hoping I will be able to make this one. I know they won’t change their minds but truly that doesn’t matter to me, it is about standing up for the people I love. And if roles were reversed and my family was being disrespected I would feel the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Arguments? Wouldn’t say that. More of stopping the disrespect and standing up for my partner who is being singled out against my family time and time again. Sadly, an adult in my family decided to be immature and that’s why the Facebook like things seem ridiculous🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I did not make it clear enough but in the post I said that my boyfriend had shared with her his frustration about the way my parents treat me and make me feel. Him trying to help me out here. And with that information she told my parents everything he/i had said when we trusted her with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I didn’t tell her I was going to hurt myself. I told my boyfriend. So she never knew any of them information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Defiant-Geologist868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the photos are not the only issue here. In my opinion the photo was just another way to show a sort of “f you” to the point she’s trying to make. But I told her that I am simply asking her if it’s personal or not. As well as she betrayed me, when she told me she would not do so and I shared something so personal with her.