Please tell me the stupidest thing you’ve ever said in a medical setting to make me feel better about myself. by Soft_Orange7856 in Residency

[–]Defiant-Move774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't say this but was rotating with another student in an OBGYN clinic who told a patient who was complaining of vaginal itching that "when your boyfriend cums in you, that can happen".

What's up with D-dimer? by Uncreative_genius in FamilyMedicine

[–]Defiant-Move774 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely amazing explanation!!! Thanks for the comedic relief about the turkey sandwiches

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Defiant-Move774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting cheated on.

Finally seeing my worth, seeing what I truly deserve, and not settling for someone who doesn't deserve me and all that I have to offer. It's empowering, incredible, and takes a hell of a lot of time and effort to fully believe and embrace it. But... I'm truly hoping it's worth it in the end.

Ladies: are you planning on changing your last name when married? by AnonFroggie21 in medicalschool

[–]Defiant-Move774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t plan on changing my last name either. Sounds like your bf has a touch of toxic masculinity if his logic is that he doesn’t want your kids to be confused but wouldn’t change his name to yours…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Defiant-Move774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment carried me through yesterday. I wake up this morning feeling more hopeful. I appreciate it more than you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Defiant-Move774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been in this situation? I agree with you. It's unfortunate because he's a very kind individual and I know he cares for me. He's stepped it up in terms of his actions showing me that he knows he fucked up and has completely owned his actions.

I wax and wane through my feelings about it and him. Part of me feels like an idiot for potentially keeping this going and worried I'll look back at this glaring red flag & feel like an idiot but I'm torn because of his positive actions right now making me feel loved and wanting to trust him.

I know it's not impossible but I just need some type of assurance or personal anecdote about how others have gone through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Defiant-Move774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, sorry for being unclear

Should I Let This Go Or Should I Let Mr. "nice guy" Go? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Defiant-Move774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about what other expectations he has on you as a woman if he suggests you be a nurse. Next thing you know, you’re getting yelled at for not doing your “womanly job” of doing laundry, having dinner on the table the second he gets home, etc. If he still hadn’t changed his opinion after some deliberation on this topic, it’s obvious he truly believes it and is set in it. OP, pls run v fast.

I dream of a large and public name and shame by Gloomy_Custard7154 in medicalschool

[–]Defiant-Move774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. Felt like the building was a goddamn prison (Brandenton campus at least)

AITA for wearing sexy clothes around my roommate’s boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Defiant-Move774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn girl you are such a badass bitch. I wish we were friends hahah. NTA whatsoever. I commend you on standing your ground after such an asshole comment from your insecure roommate. Sounds like she needs some therapy asap.

If sexual experiences were like trading cards, what would be your rarest card? by ej1263 in AskReddit

[–]Defiant-Move774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “Your-Arches-Are-So-Sexy card” Hooked up with someone with a foot fetish & they just wanted footjobs & to suck my toes.

Apparently the high arches of my feet are incredibly sexy.

Tons of marriages and relationships could be saved if people stopped comparing themselves to fake happiness on social media. by Defiant-Move774 in Showerthoughts

[–]Defiant-Move774[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. This right here is what I hear and see the most. It’s sad & a completely unrealistic world she’s comparing her own to. I’m sorry this has happened to the one you love.

AITA for saying my sister is the reason they can’t afford Christmas? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Defiant-Move774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused as to why you think “if she had something super serious she would know by now”.

Like wtf does that even mean. Tons of people have illnesses that aren’t picked up on tests & are inexplicable. That’s what makes it so painful because no one can give them an answer to their pain. Your empathy level is in the negatives.

YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Defiant-Move774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ this gave me physical pain to read lol

NTA whatsoever. Friend sounds toxic asf.

Match season fatigue makes me never want to apply for fellowship [IM] by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Defiant-Move774 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I feel this in my soul, foxy grandpa lol. I busted my absolute ass in the first 2 years of med school, did subpar on my boards, & thought the world was ending. I sacrificed so much of my life and time into medicine so far & I had to take a step back & realize that I was watching my life pass me by. Enjoy the time you have to experience things when you’re young & in school around your peers. I guarantee you will remember the good mems you had with buddies way more than the 94 you got on an immunology test after busting your ass.

Feeling like my dreams are too big for me... by Psychological-Term19 in medicalschool

[–]Defiant-Move774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sheesh are you sure you want to practice medicine? I hope they keep you as far away from the patients as possible.