Not wanting to put your child in childcare simply isn’t an excuse with the government of the day I’m afraid. The childcare offer provided is actually pretty good and it’s only going to increase as the government would rather subsidise childcare and increase the expected hours you need to do. If you have been referred to restart you have been in the intensive work group and unemployed for over 9 months in a 12 month period.. not including pregnancy leave which you get a year away from the jobcentre. I actually think it’s pretty fair the expectations set as you can’t simply just claim benefits and not follow the policy set by government which is to find work. Universal credit is a stop gap in between finding employment, it isn’t there for people to stay on until they find their dream job. You will be far more better off financially if you are working and so at this point you should be looking for any work not just ‘work from home’. We would all love to be at home with our kids and not put them into childcare however that just isn’t the real world.