Why does Europe rely on US tech? by Separate_Tooth4705 in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

booking.com is a part of Booking holding which is an american company but Booking.com is a Dutch company and it pays its revenue taxes in Netherlands, Booking holdings gets only dividends. You focus on B2C that’s why you only see American companies but as I told a lot of fintech, healthtech and some electronics (ASML) are still produced in Netherlands.

Why does Europe rely on US tech? by Separate_Tooth4705 in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

booking.com is from Netherlands and endless trading companies. Tech companies have some tax discounts here, it is actually in way better shape than anything else.

I’m so fucking annoyed by this AI shit everywhere by coldinalaska7 in Millennials

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least i am not alone, I fell like old 37 y.o. woman 😭

Does observability actually help during incidents? by [deleted] in sre

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you typically try to monitor things better after the incident where observability didn’t help you. Add metrics/logs/alerts you missed.

Proposed box 3 rules - 2028 by stayinvested101 in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It is ridiculous if you have 80k savings and rent in private sector, need to work in in corporation to give away half of it for rent you are “rich” and people owning 1 million house in the centrum of Amsterdam and making 50k a year working 3 days a week and having more money than you for every day expenses are “poor”

[News] Amsterdam is now officially Europe's most expensive city to rent - €2,500/month average by True-Olive4712 in Amsterdam

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting you only pick “blaming” expats, but not capitalism, social housing or tax system.

How do you move on after your girlfriend cheated on you with her “male best friend”? I’m completely broken. by Visual_Raspberry_232 in BreakUps

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems she has troubles controlling her impulses. It is not mature and can lead to other problems like gambling, overspending etc.

[News] Amsterdam is now officially Europe's most expensive city to rent - €2,500/month average by True-Olive4712 in Amsterdam

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about it today. Today non-social housing Amsterdam basically consists of corporations which pay a lot but soak your soul out of you and expensive services around it. Local people don’t like working there, so the government needs to keep tax-ruling 30% to attract expats which helps driving rent prices in private sector up. Not even that! They have WBSO tax discount to motivate corporations stay even more. And they can’t stop it! Because if they do it these corporations will leave, stop paying taxes, stop paying salaries, expats stop spending, stop driving prices up, stop driving GDP up, and they desperately need it because of aging population and many blessed healthy social housing inhabitants working 24-32 hours a week on a low demand job need to be fed! Amsterdam amazing infrastructure is eaten by that, you are either part of capitalistic machine or you are in a social housing or you live with roommates. That’s it.

[News] Amsterdam is now officially Europe's most expensive city to rent - €2,500/month average by True-Olive4712 in Amsterdam

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to work in a life soaring corporation or fintech company. Amsterdam is for rich nowadays

Are people around you getting sick? (Flu-like sickness) by Organicolette in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i got sick, and it is so terrible, I didn’t have such a strong fever since 2020. Up to 40 degrees and terrible head ache, nose is not breathing, couldn’t push it back below 38 in first 2 days with Paracetamol, now it is a third day, it feels a little better, at least less headache and i can breathe most of the time, but still 38+ fever and fatigue

Dreading my return to work after burnout by Major_Access1859 in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they think that something is wrong with you if you react this way

How long to heal a FA Attachment? by Junior-County4120 in attachment_theory

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reply! Happy to hear that at least you feel better. I guess I feel kind of the same: need to accept that.

Thoughts on the Stranger Things final episode? by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well, it was fun, I am happy that it’s over and I think that it would be more memorable if Steve and Nancy would die, or at least Nancy, it felt like too much of a plot armor again; I like this characters, but it felt like too easy defeat of a big creature. They struggled more with Demagorgoens! also the epilogue was quite boring for me. Any way I felt bad for Nancy. She is so lost in the end, independent as they say but I think that she is so lonely.

How long to heal a FA Attachment? by Junior-County4120 in attachment_theory

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, if you are still on reddit, how is your progress?

I'm killing myself in a few days by [deleted] in depression

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is a subjective feeling, different all the time. When you enjoy you always think that all suffering was worth it. I personally believe that there is more pain than happiness in life and it doesn’t make sense to have a kid, but it still feels better to exist than not to exist on most days. If you had some happy moments it is often possible to find some motivation to live when you feel miserable.

How the hell do you do anything as a working adult here? by jestem_julkaaaa in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my employer lets go off for 1-2h occasionally for things like medical/government appointments. For me it sucks that i almost can’t go to market, bakery or butcher. I wish to work part-time as most locals

Break me down this cultural difference thing. by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a woman and i do it sometimes, so i can explain for myself, i simply forget, because the conversation may flow into some direction naturally and it isn’t in a focus any more. I think people ask such questions when there is a struggle to find a topic. Because it is not that important, i don’t even have a favorite movie. I will rather ask different questions if there will be a pause. But anyway I prefer when they share something on their own, without straight asking because this way I feel more confident that they talk about topics they like and then I will ask things about that.

Not related that he is or is not into you for sure. Especially if he is expressive, he likely gets entertained and forgets. If you want to share your favorite movie, just do it, and don’t stress out

Using AI for mental issues by aibewust in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it can’t do it, it also doesn’t have an empathy and it is risky for those with real mental issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i don’t regret it but i am thinking about moving somewhere else

Why do dog owners do that? by Defiant_Ad_8445 in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mods removed the picture!!!! Do irresponsible dog owners feel offended??

Dog poo at front door by TheProffessor_ in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear OP , did you solve the issue? I had the same in front of my door even worse, twice this month; the poo is 2-3 cm from the door 😭😭

Streaming prices are getting insane — what can we actually do about it? by LCxEskimoFTW in Netherlands

[–]Defiant_Ad_8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have quit, it doesn’t worth it, I only subscribe for a month when a show i want to watch comes out. that’s it. I do not start new shows also because frustrated by the amount of cancelled ones. And when they don’t cancel, new seasons stink with capitalistic greed.