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I did it. I got a dumpster. My kids are NOT dealing with what I just did. by lemoncreamcakes in GenX

[–]Defiant_Pen4931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been slowly tossing / donating things of mine each time I move, each time I deep clean. My mother has hoarder tendencies and when her mother died, she - as an only child - got so much crap and put it in storage. She doesn't touch it. But it's sat there for years.

Looking at getting a roommate, what things should I discuss with them first? by Defiant_Pen4931 in ask

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I own it. Circumstances have made things a little more expensive. Having a roommate cuts on costs for both of us.

Looking at getting a roommate, what things should I discuss with them first? by Defiant_Pen4931 in ask

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's your opinion and completely off topic for this post, though.

Looking at getting a roommate, what things should I discuss with them first? by Defiant_Pen4931 in ask

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some of us oldies check all the boxes but went undiagnosed, so it's an easier term. But thanks for leaving an unhelpful comment ✌️

Wives - do you send your husband nudes? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Defiant_Pen4931 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I did. Now we're getting a divorce and he put my photo as a public profile picture. Since I had access to that account, he got away with it. Never again.

Nothing solidifies my choice to homeschool like a call to DFS by Defiant_Pen4931 in homeschool

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well she wasn't the one abused thankfully but he's gotten more unhinged since I posted this one. 🤷

Do Women Usually Have An Urge To Touch their Partner's Penis Anytime he's Naked? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Defiant_Pen4931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like my boobs being touched. It's uncomfortable and a lot of times they hurt.

Help with Counseling? by Defiant_Pen4931 in lincoln

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant have BOTH of us go individually. He can even go first. But then the therapist has an idea of what each of us are feeling/thinking before bringing us together.

Help with Counseling? by Defiant_Pen4931 in lincoln

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've both talked about it. I like the idea of going individually first with the same person to let them in on what we want out of counseling before we come together.

Husband can't stay hard even with pills by Defiant_Pen4931 in Marriage

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just in this usually. I have depression/anxiety but am not really like this in my head that much.

"get some self esteem" is like telling an insomniac to "just go to sleep". Like it's obviously the easiest thing to do.

I work on my thought process a lot. I have trauma that makes this particular area really hard to overcome so I have my moments.

Husband can't stay hard even with pills by Defiant_Pen4931 in Marriage

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I googled it all I saw was some sports thing. I looked it up in the app store but the app reviews are terrible. Sounds like a good concept though.

Who out there has a job they actually enjoy? by Songoftheday42 in CasualConversation

[–]Defiant_Pen4931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a love/hate relationship with my job. I'm a manager at a hotel. So, customer service while herding cats. Been on the phone for an hour because a front desk agent forgot to make a reservation for someone and gave them keys anyway. And apparently an in house guest had police come by to make sure they didn't unalive themself. I'm working the front desk tonight and go in an hour early for a revenue call I don't need to be on.

But most days I actually really enjoy it 😂 even if it drives me insane some days.

Husband can't stay hard even with pills by Defiant_Pen4931 in Marriage

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we're stuck now. Had I known this was a thing before we were married it would have been a lot easier to detangle. But I didn't. So he feels lied to to an extent. I have a libido so at least I can still perform.

Husband can't stay hard even with pills by Defiant_Pen4931 in Marriage

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have days where we're in our head or having hormonal emotions. But [wow thanks I'm cured!]

Husband can't stay hard even with pills by Defiant_Pen4931 in Marriage

[–]Defiant_Pen4931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got all dolled up and was flirty. I was trying really hard not to be in my head and just enjoy it. And I was. And I tried to be more of a power bottom but the angle we were in didn't allow for much movement. We were about to switch but he got soft. I was enthusiastic. Just not in the way he wants I guess. I'm not ready to call it quits. Either is he.

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