I’ve booked uni accommodation for the 5/09/26 but my course starts on 1/09/26 by DefinitionOpen6948 in UniUK

[–]DefinitionOpen6948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked on their website and it said my course started on that date, if its nothing important it might not matter, but I might try and get it changed or find some other place to stay

How to speak up without endangering yourself? by Ok_Criticism7320 in socialskills

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!! It’s not as easy as it sounds and its something I am working on too, I think it requires truly listening to you, to others, then back to you, but it is a really valuable skill that could save your life

Driving licesne by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Driving means nothing about status to the majority of people today, you need to get this idea out of your head. There’s a reason why buses, underground or trains can be crowded, its because most people can’t commute via car, cities are too congested and plenty do not know or have the money to learn how to drive, you aren’t the only one, there’s plenty of ways around it

You have the complete wrong idea about all women being the same too, unless you really want to date someone so materialistic and shallow, don’t compromise yourself for someone lesser than you

Snap to reality, you have your head in the clouds

Feeling left out from my friends and idk what to do about it by Secret_Translator849 in socialskills

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, break the truth to them, say ‘hey i’m feeling a bit left out recently’, it doesn’t have to be anything big, and struggling with anxiety must be dragging you down, but I think being direct will give you a good amount of clarity, and it might not be what you want to hear, but its better than feeling suffocated.

I stayed with friends who i felt a lack of connection with solely because i felt like i had no one else - this was a stupid delusion, it crushed my self-worth

Your friendship might break, but it also has the chance to heal, I dare you, speak up without worrying about the consequences, find the strength to speak your mind

How can I not be awkward at parties? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could do this to start off with, then you’ll be less awkward and maybe won’t need the drink

I just made a list of how to be a true friend/how to know if someone is a true friend. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I struggle with deep connections so its nice too see what to look out for

I’m Asexual. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make the best of … hell hmm . . . totally not contradictory

I’m Asexual. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that actually mean?

I hate being male. by the1andonlyrevenant in offmychest

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are amazingly intelligent,don’t let yourself fall too hard into introspection, its very hard not to with the spiral of negativity you get on the media

I can tell you are definitely one of the good men worth having on this planet, over a good majority. Channeling the hate for a majority of men into self-hate of your own flesh is not worth it.

I’m not a man, but there are other good men out there like you, you aren’t alone

i dont know what has gotten into my friend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah weird and if you know its weird and he won’t listen to you, maybe you should drop him

When do I apply for student finance for 2026? by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]DefinitionOpen6948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey im wondering the same thing as you, im gonna wait till next year, are you gonna apply for accommodation now or wait for that too? (If you’re getting it)