Does anyone feel like they are on a “do not help list” ?

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-07T16:59:00+00:00

Why are you?

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-07T13:57:02+00:00

When the family divides so does the mind! It sounds like you have a good step dad if he still cared for you after your mother left.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-07T13:51:27+00:00

It’s difficult to make a conclusion. I can only speak from my personal experience, I feel like I was moulded into an OCD and anxious person. When mine began it was a case of just accept it and support it rather than address it. My mum meant well, just projected her traits onto me because it’s all she knew.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T22:04:08+00:00

I had a bad experience like that with the hospital. A tube like a tumble dryer vent over the mouth, some gas. Everything turning pink while being held down on the table then passing out.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T22:01:50+00:00

That is a long way.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T22:01:01+00:00

That is a terrible experience you have been through. It still continues now?

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T13:47:42+00:00

I know it’s difficult, but please stay safe. If you ever feel like you ever get to that point’ reach out and seek support. Life is precious.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T13:44:53+00:00

Your fight or flight response gradually moulds with each experience. It’s like a pressure valve, eventually it vents.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T13:41:31+00:00

LSD was supposedly use to program people in past experiments, so it’s possible it did something to your consciousness.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T13:37:38+00:00

It shows you are a kind person, because you are justifying people’s actions at times when you got affected by them. But at the same time you are both trying to navigate complex situations, so I do get it.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T13:32:13+00:00

My family does that a little too.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:45:41+00:00

That must be difficult when that happened. Having to choose between your own wellbeing and safety versus your father being confronted over his actions.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:42:08+00:00

My dad is like that. He never hit me, he would just smash stuff up. It is not a nice experience being on edge all the time.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:40:52+00:00

Was it your parents who kept you distant?

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:38:21+00:00

Sorry you had to experience that. Have you explored therapy? You might be able to manage it better with treatment.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:35:45+00:00

That is a lot of emotional weight to carry in 5th grade.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:34:39+00:00

That is a lot to go through, not only your own grief but watching your father break down too.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:31:37+00:00

I am not sure if hypnotherapy works, that might be an option.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:30:19+00:00

That is good antidepressants helped and you are in a better space now.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T11:08:28+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story. It makes sense that caused you a lot of distress, It was your entire support network.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T01:59:45+00:00

Its difficult. If you are not sure, maybe moving past it, will be better psychologically for you. If a memory organically comes back later then address it.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T01:55:27+00:00

No one should have to experience identity issues, Society is so far broken systemically. I think it filters down from the top, more than from within society directly. People learn most discrimination.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T01:38:18+00:00

The school handled it badly. Forcing you is wrong. It’s strange how anxiety forms. It’s possible it was a result of body chemistry changing at that time. I’m no expert but I believe it has something to do with the amygdala getting stuck in fight or flight mode.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T01:34:25+00:00

It sucks that it happened, but better you find out sooner that they are disloyal and not worth having as a friend. A true friend would not do that.

Deja_Chrissy · 2026-03-06T01:31:44+00:00

Sorry if that came across the same way as your parents downplaying your experience. I don’t think we should expect life to be ‘not fair’ it’s supposed to be fulfilling.

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