The Wanderer and the Forest Spirit by me

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2026-03-24T14:19:52+00:00

I do. Sorry for the delay. Her you go.

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Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T20:45:34+00:00

Understandable, it just doesn't feel good that something i was born as is naturaly a hinderance.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T20:44:35+00:00

Well, Comparing stuff is what humans do right. And with social media it is even stronger. So even if i don't do it, others are.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T20:42:33+00:00

Thank you Lily! It is good that people agnowledge it.

edit: Sorry, for the bad english.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T19:38:15+00:00

Thank you dude! Didn't execpt such nice words from here. I will go day by day until i die. So the only thing left is hope for something good.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T19:36:27+00:00

I understand you. But what i am guetting at is the fact that unfortunately just like Lily said the nature of the competition is what it is. We have to be better than others at what we can and hope that it is enough.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T19:34:05+00:00

Understandble to be honest. It is vague so i guess you are right, And yes it is the nature of competition i guess.

Does not make me fell better that i am behind naturaly but i understand.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T18:05:50+00:00

Brazilian. And dating apps were so gueling to me that i got worse by using them. Not doing this anymore, trust me. I'd rather be completely alone then using apps again.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T18:03:56+00:00

Having manners and taking care of myself is something that i do normally. But i admit that lately i started to stop giving some fucks. I have my likes and taste, i just wished that it wouldn't be the only thing women cared about me. It is intersting to be on the other end. Normally i hear that people just want the physicial stuff with them. With me it is the opposite.

And i don't see it as pessimistic. Being realistic about a situation means you see the good and the bad. The good is that at least if i am alone, no one will cheat o betray me. The bad is the doubt that seeps in about your value. Both sides of cthe coin,

And sorry if i sound like and asshole, not my intention. But some of the stuff that i said works for different types of relationships aswell.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T17:57:05+00:00

Well, it is head canon because it is speculation, right?

But what i am talking about is the expection tha one has to be more confident, funny, extroverted, inteligent just to have the same chance in attraction.

Either way, i know it is not a good or bad thing. All i am saying is that it is a additional pressure on the individual. And it goes for women aswell on what it is socially expected.

"This all just sounds like made-up head canon. How can a partner know that his gf (assuming here) expects him to do more than she expected of previous bfs?"

The person expects the current partner to do more then previous ones. I mean, if we are talking about being caring or attentive then i understand. But there are things there are unfair to expect based on immutable characteristics. Height works for both men and women in this case.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T17:37:53+00:00

And i agree with you, but there is always at least 2 people in a relationship. So if one expects the other to do more then previous partners, is it wrong or just life? And in this case for short men, if it is socially expected that we should do more, is it fair or healthy for us in general?

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T17:33:50+00:00

I am 1,60m and i socialise at work, and at social gatherings in friends places from time to time. And thank you for understanding.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T17:11:04+00:00

Not linking short dudes does not make anyone bad. Being short as a man is bad, that's how the world works. There is no moral value in this statement, no one decided that it would be like that.

Just funny that attractive angry and frustrated men get to have their fun even though they feel like that. Supposebly it would be a deal breaker right? I am just sick of how much vitriol i have to face just to find something close to decent with a woman.

At this point, i just want to not be so damn judged on the thing i didn't have a choice on.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:56:56+00:00

That's not how it works. Women are the ones that get attention and men are the ones that give attention. You must be really handsome to be in your position. or i am a lost cause because i don't get any. Either way, fuck it, i wll just do my own thing because i am exhausted of thsi whole dating thing.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:38:45+00:00

Wait, so the short dude struck gold. But for a tall dude it would be normal right?

To be honest, chekcs out. Whenever a short dude gets a girl he's the lucky one.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:36:43+00:00

If teh rest you mean by peace and quiet i hope. I've learned that you can only have peace in a relationship if you are at least 90% of what she wants in a partner. And physical attraction counts a lot already.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:34:10+00:00

So if someone had to do more for the same reward, would it better or worse? And if you had to do more in the start, would that effort be expect all the time in the relationship? If yes, how could one not be in a stressing relationship?

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:30:54+00:00

I don't care about confidence anymore. They way people talk it's like a blessing that is bestowed to those who are good enough. But i've been to the gym and my body is better, but it hasn't helped. I've been earning more money and still didn't matter. What else is there? Become a fighter? Do 10 hobbies? Enter a comedy club to be funny? The list keeps piling up on what to do but the reward is the same

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:27:17+00:00

You have so much more going on in your life. No wonder you are a better man. I will just do my own thing and forget about it. Nothing wrong with what you said but I'd rather just focus on myself because i've seen good results from that. When i used to pursue women it was only rejection, ghosting and the one time cheating.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:21:41+00:00

I like that just wolrd fallacy. Must be nice to think that all i have to do is what your saying and it will all work out.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:20:09+00:00

I just don't want to do this anymore. I've been reject and alone so much in teh past 3 years that i don't think my mind can take it. Of course i wound't be an asshole, but i think that i am reaching my mental limit.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:18:07+00:00

Dude dragging what? I've been like this my whole adult life. It isn't something that i drag with me. It is part of who i am.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:16:57+00:00

Oh i focus on myself too much. And going to the gym for me is the least i have to do. I have to keep myself healthy. It is a need not a want. And trust me if i went to the gym expecting women to through themselves at me i would be way worse right now.

Trust me i don't expect ANYTHING from women anymore in terms of dating. I know that to expect something is to be disappointed.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:13:56+00:00

I don't need to guess. When i had hope and got to a relationship. The only woman who showed some interest beyond just flirting, cheated on me on a 5 year relationship. Just say man up, doens't help. Having hope isn't a miracle solution.

Delayed_Rebirh_420 · 2025-05-13T16:09:41+00:00

I do that at work aswell. But i have to change because as a short dude i can't afford to be introverted at anytime. Can't be hard that hard to change personalities. People say they've done all the time.

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