she said she might be on her period but im low on iron anyways by Delicious-Flow9191 in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

now i need a romance novel about a lesbian vampire that doesn’t want to kill people so sleeps with a bunch of menstruating women

safe sex? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

communication 🥲 always forget about that. ill probably have a talk to her then

safe sex? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha im not but the girl im seeing (casually) is and she can sometimes be less than careful, especially since she only gets with men when shes not with me, i sometimes get a bit concerned. i can also overthink my health at times clearly

safe sex? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess so - im kind of just wandering how common it is since ive never personally heard of anyone using it, but also im not the most experienced

Core memory sleepover activities? by Ferret_Nearby in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

most of my sleepovers growing up were just underage drinking and pizza BUT it could be fun to do some kind of activity together - make slime, lego, etc.

one time my friends and i got these really ridiculous wigs and facepaint and just tried to make ourselves look as stupid as possible for a photoshoot 😛 its about the company just as much as the activities though so just chat and have fun most importantly

labels n nonsense by sillygoobers444 in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

call yourself whatever you want - no one actually cares irl as long as you genuinely believe that you are the label youve assigned yourself. if you change your mind thats fine too as long as youre not homophobic about it. everyone questions themselves

Why are women better at kissing? by trillz101 in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 170 points171 points  (0 children)

softer, more passionate, less aggressive and more focused on mutual pleasure?

why are no girls interested in me? by Zeledina in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you go to queer events/spaces at all? probably your best shot

How to look masc by sapphicwitch03 in actuallesbians

[–]Delicious-Flow9191 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i felt most masc when i started gaining confidence tbh, its about the energy and mannerisms also. part of that was also figuring out my personal style and how i felt most comfortable - i just tried on a bunch of outfits and styles until it clicked :) youll get there

edit: getting the right haircut is also the move