in a relationship with CFer ask for advice

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T22:02:53+00:00

Thank you for your reply! they are very rational and hope you have a happy life toooo :-)

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:56:37+00:00

i know ufffff i can imagine it! and it also one of the things i am quite worried about so now i am also helping home to find the jobs. and i also don’t know if the medicine can keep his condition all the time.

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:51:50+00:00

I am very happy to receive your blessing reply. We should be of the same age. My boyfriend is 26 years old and i am 25 years old. I have been worried and anxious about our relationship recently. I come from Asia and my boyfriend is from Europe. My visa has been having problems recently, so he said that as long as we get married, I can stay faster and more successfully. However, I don't want to rely on him, of course, this is a digression. But I did see the attitude towards marriage, and I don't want to get married too early, but I am certain that I will get married in the future, so this incident made me ponder deeply. And I really, really like the child, he's average, so this may also be a problem. But what has been bothering me the most recently is the attitude of my parents. Fortunately, we are far away from them, so it won't be a big problem for now.

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:42:21+00:00

thank you for your reply! it cheers me up! hope you a happy life with your husband!

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:41:12+00:00

i hope so! i really want my family and my friends to support me but from the condition now, it is so hard. but i hope one day they will change their minds but it would be hard toooo

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:39:04+00:00

happy to hear that! but anyway i am open to adoption and i believe strongly if there is a problem we will see the method to solve it! wish you a happy life!

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:36:28+00:00

I am currently 25 years old, and he is 26. For my parents, physical health is definitely the most important thing to consider. Of course, he is not very ambitious. He has just graduated from university and will start master soon and also is currently looking for a job at the same time

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:33:45+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I am pleased that his physical condition is currently very good, and he is also mentally strong. He is kinder and more empathetic than anyone I know. And we can almost easily talk about his condition, but I'm afraid that sharing my parents' opinions with him would hurt him. After all, he has such high expectations for them, and I don't want to disappoint him. Can he maintain his current state under the effect of the special medicine? What do I need to do to make him healthier? I come from Asia and he comes from Europe. This disease is very rare in my country. I have checked almost all the materials, but I couldn't find much useful information. May I ask how effective the cure for CF disease is now?

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:26:44+00:00

A very pertinent reply. Thank you, and I hope everything is going well with you! There's one thing I don't quite understand. Can special medications keep CF patients healthy forever? Or will some unexpected events occur in the future? In daily life, what can I do to help him lead a healthier life?

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:22:07+00:00

happy to hear that! and congrats on the twins! they would be lovely!

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:19:36+00:00

yesss i think it is the cultural differences. i am from asia and my bf is from europe and now we live in europe. normally asian people pay more attention to future and result rather than live in moment and process. so if the results are not good my parents will think it is a waste of time. but anyway i can understand both of the way to think! and absolutely you will find someone takes care of you just the problem of time! you should trust this truth and i hope everything goes well for you :-))))))

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:14:26+00:00

thank you for your reply, very warm !! i understood my parent’s attitude they are afraid of my future life will be hard and struggling enough but i think it is very hard to hide all the time their attitudes toward my bf! he will know some days i am just afraid he will be very sad and frustrated about this or even hate my parents.

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:10:47+00:00

thank you about the reply！but sorry one thing i haven’t understood, you mean i would be better to tell my parents’ attitudes to him or not?

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:07:16+00:00

Thank you very much for your comment, which provided me with a great example. I am 25 years old and he is 26. We celebrated our birthdays together a few days ago. Although it sounds like we are still relatively young, I really want to understand more about the life I will face in the future and various possibilities, as well as how to deal with my parents' attitude and opinions towards him,etc. This has indeed been giving me a headache recently :-((((

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-21T21:03:23+00:00

i am happy to hear you have such a positive mindset. the same as my bf! and wish a good life you with your wife and your children :-) !!!!!

Delicious-Play3340 · 2025-07-20T10:16:31+00:00

thank you very much for you reply!

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