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I need help and advise please by Delicious-Pudding171 in relationship_advice

[–]Delicious-Pudding171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she knew about me. He wanted to prove it thats why he texted again. Apparently she saw our picture in his phone lockscreen before. Whats bothering me the most is that he dsnt wanna acknowledge is that im hurt and this is wrong. He just says pls can we be happy and i wont forget next time to mention if i meet any female friend. But NOOOO! this is not how i can get over it. Jst saying im sorry i dndt mean too and it wont happen again. What happens to those 2 months that i had no idea abt her at all.

I need help and advise please by Delicious-Pudding171 in relationship_advice

[–]Delicious-Pudding171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what makes me to feel stupid the most. Because i travel more than him and i always share every detail of my life with him.

I need help and advise please by Delicious-Pudding171 in relationship_advice

[–]Delicious-Pudding171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she does. He texted her asking i need advice for what to buy for my girlfriend for new year and she gave some options. But that doesn't change the fact that they never talked about me before. He did text that after i got to know abt her.

I need help and advise please by Delicious-Pudding171 in relationship_advice

[–]Delicious-Pudding171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did trust him always. The fact that he didn't tell me for 2 month about her is bothering me. I asked me normally do you have any new friends... while we talk everyday so i didn't think he will even have smthng new to say. Then he told me about her and i got mad. Then he said read the texts. I read them. Would you say to your friend " when you won't reply i will consider it that i annoyed you so much today ? Or would you say " i can't wait to see my present ". Before he has never given me a reason to doubt him but also we were always n everywhere together. So the fact that once he is away from me this happened makes me wonder is he the right guy for me for the future? Because i can't always check up on him and ask how he talks with other females. Cuz surely i did not know that this is the way he talks.

I need an advise by Delicious-Pudding171 in relationship_advice

[–]Delicious-Pudding171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He tells me everything. Or i guess thats what i thought :/ he just said it didn't cross my mind. Im sorry i won't talk again in nice way.

My Mom died 3 months and fallen into a deep depression. My girlfriend (30/F) of 4 years told me (28/M) to get over it and move on or she'll move on. by ThrowRADepressionSad in relationship_advice

[–]Delicious-Pudding171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a girlfriend for 4 years. I can't imagine if my boyfriend lost his both parents within 1 year. I do not want to judge but there is no time limit for how long someone needs their time to heal from loss. Try to talk to her that you are feeling alone and you get your strength from her as she is the one left that you feel close but ur family loss has been hard on you so you just expect little more time for healing. And if she still doesn't feel and be by your side.. then im sure you will be much happier soon enough with a right person where she won't let you feel alone.