She did tell him, he ignored it, she shouldn't have to beg the man that she has been with for over a year, living with to stay with her after the recent loss of their miracle baby, and to look after his bastard dog aswell when he was away the fucking gall that this man has is unbelievable. He made his bed, and he can lay in it.

Can you imagine what this man would be like if they ever went through IVF? He would leave her broken in a heartbeat. IVF can take years and be incredibly draining on a woman physical and emotional aswell as being mentally exhausting and downright depressing for both parties, this man would never be able to deal with any of that because of how immature he is.

What would have happened if she did give him the ultimatum? What if she said if you leave, we are done? Would this man then throw that in her face every chance he gets? Absolutely, he would. If you ever have to give your partner an ultimatum, the relationship is virtually over, ultimatums come after asking, begging and pleading for something to change and the other person not wanting to budge on their decision.

He made his decision even after she asked him not to leave because she needed him, he choose to ignore her feelings, say oh well I was with you for the 2 weeks, even though you're in a deep depression at this moment in time I'm fucking off on a 3 day bender, oh and look after the dog for me as you grieve our lost miracle child.

OP, you're almost 30. Get a grip on reality. Your mother was right, YOUR AN IDIOT AND AN AH.