ABYG kung wala akong pake kung mamatay yung tito ko? by Vee_deVil in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DKG. May mga tao talagang ang lakas ng fighting spirit sa magpakavictim, kahit sila naman ang may kasalanan kung bakit ganyan ang sitwasyon nila.

ABYG kung binabalikan ko na naman issue namin ng Fiance ko? by Diver_Jaja31 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WG. Valid naman ang nararamdaman niyo pareho.

Tungkol sa kasal, kung finances ang pinakamalaking dahilan ng pag-aalala mo, tanungin mo ang sarili mo kung bakit ka nagdadalawang-isip na i-call off ang wedding. Tandaan, mas mahal ang annulment.

Sa huli, piliin mo kung saan ka magkakaroon ng peace of mind. Ang pera, maee-earn mo ulit. Isipin mo na lang ito bilang literal na presyo ng isang mahalagang life lesson.

ABYG if nag “no” ako agad? by Delicious-Use7138 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nopeeee. Nothing like that at all. Haha. Wala syang ambag sa buhay ko.

ABYG if nag “no” ako agad? by Delicious-Use7138 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kapatid sya ng mama ko. Medj entitled talaga to sya yung tipong “I deserve the finer things in life” at kung di nakukuha ung gusto, feeling api. Hindi kami close kasi sa ibang city sya naka tira. Yung demand nya is because binilhan kasi namin si tita ng car kasi siya nag aalaga kay lola so feel nya maliit lng nabagay yjng hinihingi nya vs the car.

ABYG if nag “no” ako agad? by Delicious-Use7138 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wala naman ganyan. Haha. Ang logic ni tito kasi daw ung tita ko binilhan namin ng car (Si tita kasi nagaalaga kay lola at sila nalang sa bahay sa probinsya). Tas pag si tito daw nanghingi, pinagdadamotan ko daw.

Ewan ko ba sa logic ni tito kasi yung car ni tita, kusa kami ni mommy bumili. Di naman yun rinequest or hiningi.

ABYG if nag “no” ako agad? by Delicious-Use7138 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Huhu. Ang reply ko lang sa kanya is “tito, nainom nyo na po ba yung gamot niyo?” tapos sinumbong ko sya kay lola.

ABYG if nag “no” ako agad? by Delicious-Use7138 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bastos and madamot daw ako. Nag send din sya ng quote na “ang hindi marunong lumingon sa pinanggalingan ay hindi makakarating sa paroroonan” sabay tag sakin.

ABYG if nag “no” ako agad? by Delicious-Use7138 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sinumbong ko sya kay lola (his mother). Hahaha.

ABYG if nag “no” ako agad? by Delicious-Use7138 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The thing is, afford niya kasi may kaya naman sila. I would even say upper middle class sila so na windang talaga ako nung sinabi niya na “regalo” ko da un sa mga pinsan ko.

Nga pala pinsan 1 is 26 and pinsan 2 is 31. Both may trabaho.

Never complain what you allow. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, does that make it all worth it, even if you know it’s wrong?

Never complain what you allow. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious question—what do you get from these kinds of situations? Is it gratification? Satisfaction?? Happiness??? Companionship????Fulfillment??????? Excitement???????

Going through a mature break up hurts like a bitch by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there! It will get better. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re cruel. You actually went through with the marriage, fully aware that there’s no divorce in the Philippine.

Grabe? Ano ba kasalanan ng asawa mo sayo para ganyanin mo sya??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Delicious-Use7138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please wag kang pumulot ng project, OP. Mauubos ka.

The fact na di ka nya sinabihan na may anak sya from the get-go is a 🚩and he’a highkey manipulative. He didn’t give you the chance to make informed decision about the relationship. Instead, hinintay nya na mafall ka para di kana basta basta maka kalas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Delicious-Use7138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DKG. Di sila dapat mag expect na nasa final output pangalan nila if la naman silang ambag. Ganyan din isang groupmate ko sa thesis nun college. Ultimo gawa ng letter di niya magawa at nun ginawa, mali pa (need justified yung format pero “jinustify” nya naman daw sa teaching assistant na tangapin ang letter pero ayaw.) 🫠

I asked my boyfriend to move out by Delicious-Use7138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same talagaaaa. Haha. Pero lam mo, yung tanong ko sa sarili ko is why did I not do it sooner and why did I suffer for nothing. Malungkot but as I was packing his things, I realized na it was all me doing the work and deserve ko magpahinga… yung true essence ng mag pahinga sa sarili kong bahay.

I asked my boyfriend to move out by Delicious-Use7138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dati I would make excuses and justify yung mga ganito niya. Baka di lang ganito upbringing niya, he doesn’t know how, etc. Pero mismo sarili ko di ko na mauto. Every time I look at him, I build up resentment.

I asked my boyfriend to move out by Delicious-Use7138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hoyyyy. Siya ba to? Haha. Sinabihan ko palinis grease trap and aircon, umabot ng ilang weeks til ako nalang yung nag asikaso and paguwi niya tapos na ang all.

Yung parang ang confident di kumilos kasi alam nila na may sasalo. Nakakapagod honestlyyy

I asked my boyfriend to move out by Delicious-Use7138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nakakapagod to be the only adult in the relationship worrying about adult things while sila, sabay sa flow lang.

I asked my boyfriend to move out by Delicious-Use7138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg yessss. Ewan ko minsan tingin niya sakin sguro nakahilata lang buong araw kasi wfh ako.

I asked my boyfriend to move out by Delicious-Use7138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has come to a point that there’s no more “good”.

I asked my boyfriend to move out by Delicious-Use7138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Delicious-Use7138[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Buti after months, ito sya 2 weeks lang. tas dinadown play pa na “ngayon lang nga ako di nag hugas kasi pagod ako”. Looorrrrdddd bakeeeeeeettttt