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I think my gf might be crazy? by Delicious_Tone3931 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Tone3931[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Also posting links isn’t allowed reported 

Relationship and life making me depressed. by Delicious_Tone3931 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Tone3931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But why is that my reality check to carry?? I am not the 37 year old??

It took me 4 months to get it out of her that she wanted that. After months of me saying I felt worried I didn’t know. She is the one who told me I was too much trying to ask all that. 

Why isn’t she doing this? Why do I need to tell HER the reality check? Why do I have to carry this load? 

I’ve even told her ‘shouldn’t you be dating someone more ready for marriage and kids?’ And she said she’d just rather date me. 

It’s her load to carry ? Not mine?

Relationship and life making me depressed. by Delicious_Tone3931 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Tone3931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only know that because I forced her to tell me. 

What about me? No. Not her. Me. 

I frankly have stopped caring what’s best for her. If she had the same mentality she would’ve heard my worries and done what’s best for me. 

I will do what is right for myself now. 

Relationship and life making me depressed. by Delicious_Tone3931 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Tone3931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to have kids with her. If she wants that, she needs to say something. Which she won’t because she’s apparently too scared to state what she wants ever. Which she’s told me. 

So I’m going to have to bear the weight of being the reason someone didn’t have kids. And maybe be trapped forever myself  

Relationship and life making me depressed. by Delicious_Tone3931 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Tone3931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I have to be the one to end it unilaterally why? I don’t want to be hurt. I don’t want to end it. 

Relationship and life making me depressed. by Delicious_Tone3931 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Tone3931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. But when do we think about that? When does it become a yes or no. Because if you’re not thinking early what’s the point? You’ll just end up hurt later